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How do you get girls who are known for being shallow ("bimbos")

Indian Race Troll (IRT)

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I am not calling them bimbos but most of the people I know call them bimbos.

Most of my past has consisted of getting girls who were hipsters, well traveled, well educated, and open minded. Girls that were all cute and chill to be with. I think this is a part of me wanting what I can't have but historically I have done poorly with the kind of girls who are commonly seen in the biggest parties, clubs, and bars. This has also made me frustrated to the point I have stopped going to a lot of the big parties that my friends call me to.

A part of me has always wanted the kind of girls who are shallow, are more likely to be pornstars than finish college, and the kind of girls who most of my friends look down upon. I want a Nicole Aniston kind of girl these days over a girl who is cute and has a bright future ahead.

As I have said, I have done poorly with these girls. They don't care about what I have to say or what I do. I know a lot of this has to do with my ethnic background (brown) since these girls are known for being shallow and judgmental of most people. Then again I have put some work into getting a better body and trying to dress more trendy too but at times I feel so hopeless, like I feel my heritage alone will kill my chances.

I know these girls won't make the best relationship material but I want to try it out and see how it is like being with one despite what people might say about these girls.

Outside of something extraordinary like driving a Lamborghini or being a celebrity, what can I do to get these kinds of girls?
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake

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Breaking Your Limits

Mental Break: Love yourself and your Personaility
*You can't look down on yourself, girls will see you the way you view yourself
*Treat them like they already like you
-Girls will accept you better when you accept yourself and you treat them like they're already your girlfriend/already into you

Common Ground: Relate to them
*To sleep with a girl, she must feel like you understand her
*Find out what she likes and what she does
*What are her dreams

Be Witty: Cross swords with her
I once engaged in a battle of wits with a girl who was "shallow"
Her: I don't think there's enough room for the three of us
Me: Three of us?
Her: Me, You, and your ego!
Me: Well make that four sweetheart
Her: Four?
Me: Me, You, my ego, and your attitude
Her: Well aren't you clever

I actually won her over with that statement and she began letting her guard down and let me into her heart. It's really all about dealing with her insecurities and attitude. I tend to approach these girls these days with a "Yeah I want you but I don't need you" attitude.

Final thoughts: Have tough skin, if you're sensitive you'll never be able to win one over. You have to not let what she says get to you. You have to be able to shake it off. Do that and you'll be on your way to bringing her home.

Questions, comments, or concerns?!

Just Dave
 

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I am not going to lie to you, getting these kinds of girls is a completely different ballgame. As a guy from the same background as you, I have fucked a few girls like that and the girl I am dating is attractive and blonde though I would not call her a bimbo by any means.

Seems like brown men and "bimbos" just don't mix (no racist I am brown myself). Bimbos care about their appearance while brown men could care less. You would think with all that money some would get an idea of getting a better style and maybe a fitness trainer but I guess not.You have to accept that these girls are not like the girl next door who will kindly turn you down. Most of these girls know they are important, they know they are better than most girls, and they know most guys want them. To them a nerd is non-existent and if you don't have status then cash doesn't mean shit.

If you are in college then your best in is joining a fraternity that has a good reputation on campus. Next best thing if you cannot join a fraternity is to find a way to host some good parties on campus. Looking at the big picture, be someone important and do something important. Most of these girls are getting plowed by high status guys in college like the athletes, frat boys, or popular kids who throw the nice parties. You have to look your best (weight lifting, style, and hygiene), carry yourself like a successful man, and get used to the fact that these girls will reject you because they have a ton of guys lined up to get with them. There is not much PUA can tell you to do well with these girls. The pickup lines and game, these girls have seen it from the other clowns who try to pull it off and they reject them for fun. They even brag about rejecting these guys.

Think of Wolf of Wall Street (movie starring Leonardo DiCaprio), if you haven't watched it by now then I feel sorry for you. In the movie he gets the hot blonde wife when he is rich and throwing all the expensive parties. Those are the kind of guys I see locking these girls up. The guys who have maxed out everything they have, their looks and most of all their social circle.

I have seen men of all races (asian, brown, black, and mixed) get these kinds of girls as girlfriends but all of these guys were quality guys who were sought after by girls of their race. These guys maxed out their looks and were well above average compared to other guys. All of these guys looked like they hit the gym a lot and took their health seriously. Along with the good body they also had the outgoing personalities which made people gravitate towards them.

Learning pickup lines and getting over your approach anxiety won't do anything because if you aren't a quality guy (looks and status) then your approaches will be met with rejection. Your best bet is to invest time into upgrading yourself. Hit the gym, get proper nutrition, build a cool social circle, find ways to better your life financially for the future, and put the time into making a better you. This will take time but eventually some of these girls will gravitate towards you.
 
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