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I just had a girl look me in the eyes for like 20 seconds on the street. Despite approaching like 5 girls each day, I always let these good chances go.
I know how to build attraction. I know how to build comfort. But when it comes to actually succeeding, I just freeze up.
I’ve had numerous girls staring at my lips on dates, inviting me home, even telling me that they want to kiss me.. and I always freeze up and ignore them. Two times the girl even cried. But I just can’t do it! And I’m in huge emotional torment when I’m put on the spot like that. I’ve punched into walls from anger a couple of times and broke a few billboard stands when I wanted to approach, it really is bad.
Any tactics how to get over this? Apart from the vague “just do it”? I’ve done it in the past, kissed girls minutes after approaching, etc.
But now I don’t know how to feel like I deserve that again.
I know how to build attraction. I know how to build comfort. But when it comes to actually succeeding, I just freeze up.
I’ve had numerous girls staring at my lips on dates, inviting me home, even telling me that they want to kiss me.. and I always freeze up and ignore them. Two times the girl even cried. But I just can’t do it! And I’m in huge emotional torment when I’m put on the spot like that. I’ve punched into walls from anger a couple of times and broke a few billboard stands when I wanted to approach, it really is bad.
Any tactics how to get over this? Apart from the vague “just do it”? I’ve done it in the past, kissed girls minutes after approaching, etc.
But now I don’t know how to feel like I deserve that again.
