How do you start a threesome?

[randy__bobandy]

Hello all,

I am proud to announce that I will be officially attending my first threesome (for reference, I was a virgin until March, see how far I've come!)

Anyway, when you have one partner, it's easy to have things progress normally and lead into having sex. But is it different for a threesome? Because I can't dedicate all my time to one girl, and having to switch may seem unnatural.

Also, this girl attempted to have a foursome at one point (3 girls, 1 guy). She said everyone drove to a motel and they were all in the room, but no one knew how to start it, and it became awkward and nobody ended up having sex. So naturally I don't want that to happen. By virtue of that experience for her, I have to pass the bar of ineptitude that the other guy set, and I don't want to disappoint either of them with my sexual performance.

 

[Richard]

You're putting too much stress on yourself buddy.

It's not nearly as complicated as you think.

 

[ray_zorse]

I personally haven't had a threesome (dying to try it), but it appears to me that dominance is key, you are the man, you must lead, according to the site articles on threesomes you just escalate on the girl who you think will be most receptive, in the presence of the others, and the rest should fall into place (think how horny you get watching a porno, this will be exactly like that for her). Also, a friend of mine who is into swinging was telling me about a similar situation to what you described, various couples at a swingers party and nothing happened yet, so he basically just organized everyone: "right, okay so you kiss him and at the same time you guys can play around here and meanwhile you can give my girlfriend head and I'll play with your tits, okay?" and they're like sure, let's get down to it.

Ray

 

[Howell]

If a girl is trying to set up a threesome, go along with it, but don't make it a big deal. The road to threesomes for me has more often been accompanied more with a shoulder shrug than an adamant call by me of "let's do this!"

Howell

 

[Hector Papi Castillo]

Randy,

When I had my threesome, I was in an open relationship with a previous ex. I drafted up a huge list of things we should try and sent them to her, which she then showed to her friend that we would fuck together.

I tried EVERYTHING I wanted to and it was awesome!

Rule #1: Lead everything hard, except for the start of it. I had the pleasure of dating a girl who'd already had a few threesomes, with the same girl, so they kinda got comfortable first then started off. If nothing is awkward, just kinda chill with everyone and wait for them to start eye fucking you. That's when you just kiss one girl and go for it. FOr me, the two girls took a shower together, got horny, and then invited me in. From there, I spent the next 4 days orchestrating everything.

Rule #2: Always focus and maintain good eye contact with "your girl." Despite my ex being a very dominant, high sex drive, high partner count girl, she got VERY jealous when I wouldn't focus on her in the threesome.

Rule #3: Try everything you want to try. A few fun ones

- Cum on one girls face and have the other(s) lick it off, then tell them to make out with each other and spit your cum back and forth

- Have them do 69 and alternate between fucking one in the pussy and the other in the mouth

- Fuck a girl doggy while she eats the other out; if the other one is your girl, maintain strong eye contact with her and mouth really dirty shit to her

- Have them both suck your dick (and every guy I've talked to about threesomes says the same thing - girls will intuitively do this thing where one s ucks your dick and the other kisses you, and they rapidly alternate. It's awesome to be kissing one girl while you hear another girl literally choke on your cock)

- Both of them get on their knees and alternate fucking them while they kiss each other

- They 69 each other, but this time, you fuck the top girl from behind. The girl on bottom can lick your cock/sack while you drill the girl on top. If you do this before you cum, you can go straight from fucking to super-soaking the bottom girl's face

Threesomes are awesome.

- Anatty

 

[randy__bobandy]

Hey Anatman, thanks for the reply. Unfortunately, I no longer think that it's going to happen. It's been some time (~1 month) since I last messaged the girl. But I decided to a few days ago suggesting we meet up next weekend. She never got back to me though and it's been a few days by now. I guess she lost interest :\

I'm trying my best to have the numbers/availability mindset (that's not the right term for it), and be like "Oh well, just move onto the next girl" but damn if I don't feel like I missed out. I've slept with two girls this month (via Tinder, not happy to say), so I'm still doing fine.