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I am not a big fan of kissing her on a date before trying to pull her. The only situations I do it is when we have made out already before the date (usually on the day we met).
However, this leaves me with a dilemma. It's happened in the past that I had a first date, chilled with the girl, tried my best to generate a good combination fo attraction and comfort and when it came to pulling her to my place, I faced resistance.
Now, let's say I want to give this girl another try. Texting her "was great spending the night with you etc." sounds kinda needy after a failed pull. From an abundant guy's perspective, she didn't really deserve such kindness after she resisted sex. That's the kind of stuff I text after sleeping with her and wanting to bang her again to make sure she doesn't go into slut-shame mode. On the other hand, you can't really count on the girl to text you.
Do you have a strategy for these situations? And I mean both the text itself and how long do you wait to text her after the date.
Let me know what you think.
However, this leaves me with a dilemma. It's happened in the past that I had a first date, chilled with the girl, tried my best to generate a good combination fo attraction and comfort and when it came to pulling her to my place, I faced resistance.
Now, let's say I want to give this girl another try. Texting her "was great spending the night with you etc." sounds kinda needy after a failed pull. From an abundant guy's perspective, she didn't really deserve such kindness after she resisted sex. That's the kind of stuff I text after sleeping with her and wanting to bang her again to make sure she doesn't go into slut-shame mode. On the other hand, you can't really count on the girl to text you.
Do you have a strategy for these situations? And I mean both the text itself and how long do you wait to text her after the date.
Let me know what you think.
