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How does cold approach work for the masters?

ray_zorse

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You are doing fine, just push your interactions... possibly your fundamentals could improve a bit. Don't forget to smile warmly too. But skepticism is okay and so is neutrality... occasionally I meet a girl who is instantly warm and receptive and, although I still have to game her... it really makes my day. :) Jackpot :) :)
Ray
PS As a tip, if you are finding an awkward pause after your compliment, you can go straight in to an introduction instead of giving her the initiative. Having said that, I tend to go less scripted and take small bites and just see how she reacts.
 

PrettyDecent

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Harryporker,

Even for cold approach masters, you'll still get those skeptical, off-put reaction from some girls. That's inevitable no matter who you are, and it has less to do with skill as it does whether she's "sexually available" or not.

For masters, this reaction comes much less often. There's a few factors at play to help them here - they know which girls are probably sexually available, they aren't afraid of a little skepticism at first because they can get the girl comfortable in a short time, and they have their fundamentals and attainability down.

The number of girls who become excited and nervous and tense around you when you open them only increase as you get better at cold approach. So just keep riding the wave, my friend :)

~Nick
 

Richard

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Really depends on the sexual availability of the girl and her emotional state at the time.

I get blown out of the water still but it's not because my approach was off, or because I necessarily did something wrong; the girl I approached just happened to be in a bad mood.

As you get better, reactions like this become less common because you'll have mastered many of the variables you can control that affect her initial opinion of you but nevertheless there are some variables out of your control that you simply have to deal with.

With experience you're able to pick out who would make for a good approach and who would not so your average stats get higher and you learn to avoid those girls who will give you off-put or skeptical reactions. The bright side is that you are out approaching and getting reactions from women already so kudos to you on that part!

-Richard
 
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