Toby dude! status is simply just that it is STAT---US. Its a crazy concept that exists in social circle an thus any social activity which is just every day living. Ya can be the king of kings in ya little social circle but still be nothing in the wider concept of status because there are simply many different levels and leagues that all overlap so its a mine field to understand.
am sure ya use to the whole alpha/beta thing but there are a lot of sub divides with this so its possibly better looking at it like a business with a manager, deputy manager, line manager, typical employees. Ya can be the manager of ya own store but ya nothing to a huge franchise yah?? So it depends what perception of status ya have an more importantly what ya want. Basically any social proof will work, if ya seen to have a little group where ya popular ya can be more widely accepted as a likeable person cause ya friends have validated ya. Think of a cheerleader affect, ya will judge the group as a whole rather than individually.
building ya own social circle depends on what ya have readily available, an if ya want to branch out. Say ya have 3 good friends that ya known all ya life ya have a mini group but maybe ya dont all like the same things an ya cant hang out much cause of work. well now maybe ya wanna branch out? well what do ya like? if ya like sports go an play the sports ya like or watch them out an make friends.
Go to the best clubs an make friends/connections there. Maybe ya can become friends with a group an boom instant social proof. Maybe ya dont make any real friendships here cause ya have the club life together an nothin else, thats cool. They have a place for what ya looking for. A go out on ma own a lot cause a find a lot of ma friends hate going to night clubs or they have girlfriends an have became socially reclusive because of that. Has never stopped me goin out. Am a total love wolf, but a fucking social one!! A make friends even if just for that night. Have befriended a DJ an had girls think that a worked at the club, still worked as social proof cause it appeared that a had status an power.
Seriously status means nothing but what ya see it as. Okay so some girls might look highly into status an it can definitely help with attraction but it can also screw you over because ya status to to high so they auto reject or want to latch onto you for the percieved benefits. Ya build status by interacting with people in whatever walk of life ya in. Am in a important position at ma job so high status there but it doesnt always translate outside of this. Am well respected in ma MMA an a go to guy to talk to but again this doesnt always translate outside of this. No one outside of this will know a have 3 black belts yah?? it doesnt always matter a still have the confidence from this an the social experience of just being social
a really reccomend ya read the important of a warm up approach, honestly this can even be chatting to guys its just to get ya feeling more social, the more social ya are the more status an social propf ya will build dude!!! Theres no easy way to gain ease of access to attractive women but if ya being social ya can get ya own access to them. This isnt even easy if ya in college/highschool it just means the groups are easier defined an ya have a lot of time to climb the social ladder but this also means ya have lasting impressions. If ya looking at night game or cold approach ya can paint whatever picture of yaself ya like. Just don't paint something ya not dude!!!
