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- Jan 12, 2014
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I've had 3 different wingmen that I went out on daygame/nightgame with for the past 8 months or so that I've started learning game. I'm not exaggerating here, all 3 of them were less dominant then me, and I'm not aggressive or dominant by birth (I purposely work to improve my dominance) quite the opposite actually. There was also the issue that I would have to call them and set up a gaming time, and they would rarely want to set up a pickup practice themselves, which was irritating because it felt like they were going out of their way to do me a favor, when in fact I was very much helping them get laid by my conversational skills. It's quite draining to go out with guys that I constantly have to "explain" that girls like sex, and arrange schedules in which they'll come.
With all things considered, these were the guys that had the balls to go out and have a nice conversation while we stopped and talked to chicks, out of all the people in my classes and outer social circle(STEM field, in a society where people don't even do small talk with cashiers or neighbors, thankfully I'm not a native), so you can imagine the majority of people that hadn't even heard of people talking to girls in the street.
Yes, the most obvious way to fix this is to suck it up and go out alone, but I actually get charged up and stay in a good mood when I've got a wingman.
How were you guys' experiences with this? Do you not find it strange that you have to purposely find and pick out a person from your friends list just to go out and interact with beautiful women, or was this not the case with you? I would have guessed that my friends and acquaintances would have lined up to go out with them to pick up beautiful chicks(after they learned that I've been studying and practicing pickup), but in reality the overwhelming majority of people who want a "hot girlfriend" aren't willing to do jack all to reach that goal.
With all things considered, these were the guys that had the balls to go out and have a nice conversation while we stopped and talked to chicks, out of all the people in my classes and outer social circle(STEM field, in a society where people don't even do small talk with cashiers or neighbors, thankfully I'm not a native), so you can imagine the majority of people that hadn't even heard of people talking to girls in the street.
Yes, the most obvious way to fix this is to suck it up and go out alone, but I actually get charged up and stay in a good mood when I've got a wingman.
How were you guys' experiences with this? Do you not find it strange that you have to purposely find and pick out a person from your friends list just to go out and interact with beautiful women, or was this not the case with you? I would have guessed that my friends and acquaintances would have lined up to go out with them to pick up beautiful chicks(after they learned that I've been studying and practicing pickup), but in reality the overwhelming majority of people who want a "hot girlfriend" aren't willing to do jack all to reach that goal.
