Let's assume that you're a fairly physically attractive guy, and the sex appeal is there. Let's assume also that you've sufficient disqualified yourself from being a boyfriend candidate. Now, from my experience, sex appeal alone is not enough to bed a girl (unless she's quite mature and also coincidentally horny). But how much rapport and comfort do you need to build, and how do you gauge when you've reached that point?
The last part is especially important because I think that's the main source of escalation windows. If she physically wants to bang you, that attraction is there from the first moment and doesn't go away, even if she rejects you for other reasons. But the escalation windows are based on the right levels of how much she friend-likes you.
The last part is especially important because I think that's the main source of escalation windows. If she physically wants to bang you, that attraction is there from the first moment and doesn't go away, even if she rejects you for other reasons. But the escalation windows are based on the right levels of how much she friend-likes you.
