how much does talking solves lmr?

[thats_a_penis_disgustang]

had a lot of touching a lot of eye contact and slow sexy voice talking about her dreams
you invite her to your place, sit on a couch, go for a kiss and she turns away.

with an experienced girl:
is it logical next step to say this: "actually you are right, lets set some ground rules, do you bite when kissing? do you scratch when fucking?" stuff like this in a humorous but sexy tone? all while sitting close and touching her

with a virgin:
in my previous post with a virgin, if after one attempt at kissing at my place she says no and we just start talk about why not, is that a good taktic? like, what exactly does she fear, does she fear she won't be good, or it will be painfull (whatever)?

 

[ljrozz69]

Hello there,

LMR is when you are close to having sex with someone, not when you fail escaltion. It seems that your last report was about a failed escalation.
Here are some GC articles on how to escalate better : calibration, tension, kissing, move faster. It seems that you know about push and pull, that will help you to avoid resistance too.

Now if you find resistance I suggest you to act aloof and give less interest to your girl, like she did some dumbass shit, change topics, act cold -but not too much so you are being rude or turning her off-. After a while(when you both have done/talked enough so she forgot about her rejecting you) (and you seduced her) then you can : start escalating again OR find out what is the problem -does she has a boyfriend, does she have to work the next day, etc...- and fix it(or convince her that is not a problem more likely xD) then start escalating again.

See the difference? with your idea you may end up stacking up negative compliance and resistance because you keep doing something that doesnt work and keep doing it at the wrong time, so instead you have to create/find out what is the right time, make her feel allowed to have sex with you and make her horny.

Hope this helps,
Klimax