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So I came to this site about 4 years ago as an under-sexed college kid missing out on the college experience. As a matter of fact, I was supposed to be one of the guys banned about race whining a while ago when they got rid of a lot of members. Life has just changed for me in a really big in those 4 years and I don't go on this site as much as I used to. Ever since joining this forum, I've slept with 47 different women.
In my mid 20s now and I feel like there are still a lot of changes to come but just thought I'd look back and reflect on some things. Here are just a few changes I want to share:
Less thinking, more doing.
I don't post as much as I used to and I especially don't rationalize the way I used to. Instead, I just go out there and do so I have good stories to share. At times I feel like posting but life happens and I rather do life. It is like I've made the switch from posting on forums more to hardly posting, just going out there to make shit happen.
I've had situations where I've gotten laid but don't have the time to write a lay report while the old me would write out elaborate ones. Now I get why Chase and Franco are hardly online all that much because of the amount of shit these guys must have going on in their life. It can be so tough to balance that with being on an internet forum for a long time when you factor in things like job/running a business and truly putting yourself out there.
Stuff just bothers me less.
Five years ago I would read something intolerant and racist, then lose my shit over it, these days I hardly care. I just get bothered less by life and things these days, just brush them off and keep going. Even when I get shit-tests and other things, I just brush those off with more ease. Not sure if this forum had much to do with it, whether it is me getting older or what it is, but I am at a stage now to where I could give less of a fuck. Whether it is someone saying racist shit or me encountering a tough situation, I get less bothered by it than I used to.
I have no respect for whiners, especially not race whiners, find it hard to relate with them now.
Before coming to this board, I could sympathize with them, why won't anyone hear us out?
Now I realize life is too short for that shit and these guys are genuinely not putting in the work. All this BS of race and white men having stuff handed to them does not ring true for me anymore. I genuinely believe that most ethnic guys in general are not putting in the work and have a weak beta mindset that makes them unable to have success on the level the tall white guys they complain about do. Back then I would have stood alongside these guys but these days, I kind of pity them. I just see them as weak guys who I am hoping become more powerful and break free but I see their complaints as just a bunch of garbage.
Its like I know life is shitty, realized how shitty it is and unfair too but I always ask "but what can I do about it?" these days.
So I didn't get born to rich parents.
So I went to high school in a sketchy area.
So I grew up with parents that treated me like trash at times.
So my formative years were not spent being cool and building my confidence.
So I didn't get to have a fun college experience because I wasn't like the rich kids I went to college with.
So what? So what am I going to do about it? What can I do about it? Do I keep looking back and crying or do I take the chance to change my life now? I have grown such a big disdain for whining about stuff and even blocking out people that do it consistently, even the part of me that does it every now and then.
I actually enjoy reading some posts that don't have to do with dating, especially those that concern dealing with people.
I find that they are just as important because you will always deal with people in life. Some nights I rather read about how to deal with some of the crazy people out there and how to spot the bad apples than reading about how to get pussy. I'd rather learn more about how to deal with social politics and difficult people at times than learning more about game, it is as if I've read all I wanted to read there. Even though one writer in particular on this site hates me and that feeling is quite mutual, at times I read the articles and think "this motherfucker has a great point!".
I just realized that I am less fixated on a "type" now and the hottest sex I've had was with women that were not originally my type.
I was one of the main guys crazy for hot blondes (mainly because of a chip on my shoulder) but after four years going at it, most of the hot sex (and just sex in general) I have had has been with brunettes and women with dark hair and slight tans in general (Italian looking women). On dating apps, 90% of the women I match with are brunettes or dark haired Caucasian women. Going out to bars and getting IOIs? Most of the better looking women that give them to me tend to be dark haired or brunettes. I've fucked some hot blondes for sure but most of my lays (like close to 90%) have been brunettes and dark haired women.
I'll still go for a hot blonde because I am so fucking stubborn and do want to fuck more of them but now I am at a stage to where I am happy with sex from a dark haired girl if she is sexy, the sex so far has been mindblowing. Yesterday I fucked a hot sexy dark haired chick with a tan and today, while sitting at a cafe, had one sit down right near me despite many open seats far away, she smiled and after looking at me many times I chatted with her and number closed.
A trip to France where most of my lays except for one were either non-white women or women with dark hair offered some of the best sex I've had ever.
No idea why I the best looking women I attract and get all seem to have brown or dark hair, anyone is free to take an aim at it.
In my mid 20s now and I feel like there are still a lot of changes to come but just thought I'd look back and reflect on some things. Here are just a few changes I want to share:
Less thinking, more doing.
I don't post as much as I used to and I especially don't rationalize the way I used to. Instead, I just go out there and do so I have good stories to share. At times I feel like posting but life happens and I rather do life. It is like I've made the switch from posting on forums more to hardly posting, just going out there to make shit happen.
I've had situations where I've gotten laid but don't have the time to write a lay report while the old me would write out elaborate ones. Now I get why Chase and Franco are hardly online all that much because of the amount of shit these guys must have going on in their life. It can be so tough to balance that with being on an internet forum for a long time when you factor in things like job/running a business and truly putting yourself out there.
Stuff just bothers me less.
Five years ago I would read something intolerant and racist, then lose my shit over it, these days I hardly care. I just get bothered less by life and things these days, just brush them off and keep going. Even when I get shit-tests and other things, I just brush those off with more ease. Not sure if this forum had much to do with it, whether it is me getting older or what it is, but I am at a stage now to where I could give less of a fuck. Whether it is someone saying racist shit or me encountering a tough situation, I get less bothered by it than I used to.
I have no respect for whiners, especially not race whiners, find it hard to relate with them now.
Before coming to this board, I could sympathize with them, why won't anyone hear us out?
Now I realize life is too short for that shit and these guys are genuinely not putting in the work. All this BS of race and white men having stuff handed to them does not ring true for me anymore. I genuinely believe that most ethnic guys in general are not putting in the work and have a weak beta mindset that makes them unable to have success on the level the tall white guys they complain about do. Back then I would have stood alongside these guys but these days, I kind of pity them. I just see them as weak guys who I am hoping become more powerful and break free but I see their complaints as just a bunch of garbage.
Its like I know life is shitty, realized how shitty it is and unfair too but I always ask "but what can I do about it?" these days.
So I didn't get born to rich parents.
So I went to high school in a sketchy area.
So I grew up with parents that treated me like trash at times.
So my formative years were not spent being cool and building my confidence.
So I didn't get to have a fun college experience because I wasn't like the rich kids I went to college with.
So what? So what am I going to do about it? What can I do about it? Do I keep looking back and crying or do I take the chance to change my life now? I have grown such a big disdain for whining about stuff and even blocking out people that do it consistently, even the part of me that does it every now and then.
I actually enjoy reading some posts that don't have to do with dating, especially those that concern dealing with people.
I find that they are just as important because you will always deal with people in life. Some nights I rather read about how to deal with some of the crazy people out there and how to spot the bad apples than reading about how to get pussy. I'd rather learn more about how to deal with social politics and difficult people at times than learning more about game, it is as if I've read all I wanted to read there. Even though one writer in particular on this site hates me and that feeling is quite mutual, at times I read the articles and think "this motherfucker has a great point!".
I just realized that I am less fixated on a "type" now and the hottest sex I've had was with women that were not originally my type.
I was one of the main guys crazy for hot blondes (mainly because of a chip on my shoulder) but after four years going at it, most of the hot sex (and just sex in general) I have had has been with brunettes and women with dark hair and slight tans in general (Italian looking women). On dating apps, 90% of the women I match with are brunettes or dark haired Caucasian women. Going out to bars and getting IOIs? Most of the better looking women that give them to me tend to be dark haired or brunettes. I've fucked some hot blondes for sure but most of my lays (like close to 90%) have been brunettes and dark haired women.
I'll still go for a hot blonde because I am so fucking stubborn and do want to fuck more of them but now I am at a stage to where I am happy with sex from a dark haired girl if she is sexy, the sex so far has been mindblowing. Yesterday I fucked a hot sexy dark haired chick with a tan and today, while sitting at a cafe, had one sit down right near me despite many open seats far away, she smiled and after looking at me many times I chatted with her and number closed.
A trip to France where most of my lays except for one were either non-white women or women with dark hair offered some of the best sex I've had ever.
No idea why I the best looking women I attract and get all seem to have brown or dark hair, anyone is free to take an aim at it.
