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Cro-Magnon Man
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Simple question today (I hope?),

So you meet a girl, move fast, get her to bed, etc.. etc.. All good!
You are interested in this girl more than casual... how often is appropriate to try to see her?

I'm "seeing" a few girls right now but one has particularly peaked my interest. I'm trying to avoid routine, or predictability. But lets face it, I like seeing her.
I've seen her the past 2 weekends, I'm thinking maybe leave it hang this weekend since I don't want to push it too hard. I have other girls I can see in the meantime. Trying to determine the balance here. If I'm keeping it casual, I usually keep it more random, plan things last minute, sometimes go longer than another time before seeing her again, build some suspense.

If you're interested in more with a woman... is it advisable or not to try see her more routinely or regularly? Or no?
 
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Franco

Tribal Elder
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Estate,

You can see her up to twice a week if you're interested in having the relationship go somewhere. I wouldn't do much more than though to leave some intrigue. I have a girl that I really enjoy spending time with right now that I usually see one night in the middle of the week and, occasionally, one day/night on the weekend if she has it off, and I don't have alternative plans. I've been seeing her for over 3 months at about this frequency.

- Franco
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Franco,
Thanks for the input, I was worried about overkill.

This is a relatively new girl. I've been with her the past 2 weekends. To be honest I quite like this one and am leaning towards pushing things forward with her but trying to gauge what is going to be considered pushing things forward and being too pushy, so I'm resisting the urge to be too "available".

I'm on the fence about seeing her this weekend, maybe being "busy" for a weekend would be good at this point, I'm a little unsure.
I've been keeping it cool and just letting girls come to me over the last few months, so it's sets the more "casual" tone, I'm a little unsure of myself now being in a position where I feel I'd like to pursue seeing this girl more... keep up the contact or remain a little scarce.
 
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