How promiscuous is too promiscuous?

[Pedro P]

Hello

So I am gaming this model who made the comment, when talking about hairstyle product “I know a lot of guys who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…”

Which sounded really weird and came off really weird as “I SLEEPWITH A LOT OF GUYS who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…”

And it made me wonder if this chick is really promiscuous…

So I am trying to figure out how someone would know if a chick was promiscuous, or how you would find out?

I mean you wouldn’t just come out and say - “so how promiscuous are you?” Or, “So, are you promiscuous?”

But, I don’t want to “bury my head in the sand” and act as if I’m “one special guy” banging this model I’m attracted to, only to find out I am “one of fifty dicks” that have been inside her!

Plus it feels like she’s been slow-rollin’ me, which is a partial concern cuz if she’s giving the pussy out like candy to other dudes, but I’m having to do all this work - it feels like I invested all my quality time and energy into a beat-down high-mileage Ford Pinto, just with a nice Mustang GT body - ya know…

Thoughts, Suggestions?

Oh yeah - And How promiscuous is too promiscuous?

I mean is she like my girl - Ashley Adams - who has 588 video titles to her name, with at least one dude each video, although some of the same guys, still that’s around 500 dudes in one or all of her "orifices!

Despite looking pretty delicious to me…

So yeah - How promiscuous is too promiscuous?

 

[James D]

So yeah - How promiscuous is too promiscuous?

Subjective.

Whatever you decide it is for you.

And careful with this topic.

The forum almost went down in flames few months ago from a legendary post that shall not be named.

Btw, there are some chicks brag about being promiscuous because they think it's cool and builds their value.

That's always been kinda weird to me but I suspect it's a simple projection error.

A guy who gets laid a lot is attractive to them so they think guys would be into that too.

So they brag about it.

Same thing with girls who brag about their careers. Most guys don't care that much but they think guys will be impressed because these girls themselves are impressed with men who have high flying careers.

She might not be as promiscuous as she brags to be. But doesn't mean she's a prude. Can't tell without enough data.

Anyway, you define what promiscuous means to you and what you're fine with.

 

[Pedro P]

I guess one of my questions is if: “I know a lot of guys who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…” is just I just know alot of guys who fall asleep with product in their hair or if she really was trying to tell me: “I have sex with, and sleep with a lot of guys who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…”

 

[Skills]

Hello

So I am gaming this model who made the comment, when talking about hairstyle product “I know a lot of guys who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…”

Which sounded really weird and came off really weird as “I SLEEPWITH A LOT OF GUYS who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…”

And it made me wonder if this chick is really promiscuous…

So I am trying to figure out how someone would know if a chick was promiscuous, or how you would find out?

I mean you wouldn’t just come out and say - “so how promiscuous are you?” Or, “So, are you promiscuous?”

But, I don’t want to “bury my head in the sand” and act as if I’m “one special guy” banging this model I’m attracted to, only to find out I am “one of fifty dicks” that have been inside her!

Plus it feels like she’s been slow-rollin’ me, which is a partial concern cuz if she’s giving the pussy out like candy to other dudes, but I’m having to do all this work - it feels like I invested all my quality time and energy into a beat-down high-mileage Ford Pinto, just with a nice Mustang GT body - ya know…

Thoughts, Suggestions?

Oh yeah - And How promiscuous is too promiscuous?

I mean is she like my girl - Ashley Adams - who has 588 video titles to her name, with at least one dude each video, although some of the same guys, still that’s around 500 dudes in one or all of her "orifices!

Despite looking pretty delicious to me…

So yeah - How promiscuous is too promiscuous?

that did not sound weird to me, she said she knows a lot of guys that fall asleep with the hair product... you interpreted it like that.... you could have ask, "oh really, are does guys you dated?" but it does not matter to be honest... learn about m/w complex...

 

[Will_V]

So I am gaming this model who made the comment, when talking about hairstyle product “I know a lot of guys who fall asleep with (hair) product in their hair…”

You can't tell much from one vague comment like that. You have to build up a picture, over time, from all the signals that she gives you.

In the beginning of a courtship it's best to not try to force a clarification over anything. Women are experts at not only sniffing out the things that rub you one way or the other, but presenting to you what you want to see. Instead you want her to show you who she is, in a fairly judgement free space - that is, you appreciate her and enjoy her for what she is - and then you can simply decide where she fits into your life once you know enough.

 

[Warped Mindless]

Short answer: I don’t care.

Long answer: If she’s attractive, fun, good in bed, non dramatic, follows my boundaries, etc…. Why do I need to care? Especially if she’s only a causal sex relationship

 

[Pedro P]

You can't tell much from one vague comment like that. You have to build up a picture, over time, from all the signals that she gives you.

In the beginning of a courtship it's best to not try to force a clarification over anything. Women are experts at not only sniffing out the things that rub you one way or the other, but presenting to you what you want to see. Instead you want her to show you who she is, in a fairly judgement free space - that is, you appreciate her and enjoy her for what she is - and then you can simply decide where she fits into your life once you know enough.

What can you do to create this " judgement free space" so she does let you know about current lovers, experience and situation?
(Now, the Woman I am talking about is a bit different than your average Girl given that she is a Playboy Plus Model, with a successful OnlyFans, and I suspect she High-End Escorts in Vegas, but I can't confirm.... Which is why I created this post!)

 

[topcat]

What can you do to create this " judgement free space" so she does let you know about current lovers, experience and situation?
(Now, the Woman I am talking about is a bit different than your average Girl given that she is a Playboy Plus Model, with a successful OnlyFans, and I suspect she High-End Escorts in Vegas, but I can't confirm.... Which is why I created this post!)

You're asking if an pornstar escort is promiscuous

On what platform are you "talking" to this girl?

 

[Will_V]

What can you do to create this " judgement free space" so she does let you know about current lovers, experience and situation?

When you first have sex with a girl (if you have sex with her fast) the first period of time you spend together is all about sex and fun. Telling sexual stories of your own, and asking about her sexual experiences, is a lot easier at this point. Because there are no real expectations of anything beyond.

That's why in the beginning it's a lot easier if you behave as her lover and with little implicit interest in anything else, because then you are the guy who she can trust to spill the beans to. And girls are always bursting to spill the beans to someone.

I can't find the exact article rn, but there's a great article on the main site about asking girls questions in the afterglow of sex, that's when she'll often be most honest and inhibition-free. I like to do that.

So just talking about sex and sexual adventures is a great way to get to know her. But you have to be truly carefree about it and ready to accept what you hear. If she hears anxiety/tension in your voice she's going to know that the answer is a big deal for you one way or the other, and likely either avoid the question altogether or manipulate the truth in some way.

(Now, the Woman I am talking about is a bit different than your average Girl given that she is a Playboy Plus Model, with a successful OnlyFans, and I suspect she High-End Escorts in Vegas, but I can't confirm.... Which is why I created this post!)

Well, this already answers some of your question. You can also ask her about all this, in a spirit of curiosity like "how does XYZ work?". "Have you ever ABC?".

All this is easier if in your head you are like "ok if this girl is a little whore, great! Who doesn't like one of those. Maybe she won't be my girlfriend, but she is here to give me a different kind of experience." Instead of "please let the answer be X!!!".

PS if you haven't slept with her yet, don't bother trying to find out stuff until afterward. Girls are typically guarded with you beforehand as you are still a nobody - you haven't been inside her in any way.