Hey all, I’m not sure how to proceed with this current girl/future relationships. It started super strong and I was alpha, she worked hard to make me happy, first to say let’s be official etc etc.
But the down fall happened once I committed 100%, I got needy and anxious after dates. Didn’t make her invest much and avoided conflict with her. I was the typical “white knight”. Last Friday she broke it off, during the break up we talked laughed and made out a bunch and she mentioned she’s gonna break down on the way home so I feel she’s really challenged with this.
I didn’t message her afterwards and she sent me a post on IG the nextnight, super brief conversation followed. We texted briefly yesterday and today she just “reacted” to a text rather than reply so that ended that.
What do I do? We discussed meeting this weekend to go for a walk and taking some space in the meanwhile but how can I flip this in the meanwhile? And how can I not “white knight” my next relationship. It’s subconscious and I hate how it affects my relationships. Went to a counselor today as well but he just gave me excersizes for anxiety rather than clarify my underlying issues.
Any help to move on/ get this one back would be banger thanks!
But the down fall happened once I committed 100%, I got needy and anxious after dates. Didn’t make her invest much and avoided conflict with her. I was the typical “white knight”. Last Friday she broke it off, during the break up we talked laughed and made out a bunch and she mentioned she’s gonna break down on the way home so I feel she’s really challenged with this.
I didn’t message her afterwards and she sent me a post on IG the nextnight, super brief conversation followed. We texted briefly yesterday and today she just “reacted” to a text rather than reply so that ended that.
What do I do? We discussed meeting this weekend to go for a walk and taking some space in the meanwhile but how can I flip this in the meanwhile? And how can I not “white knight” my next relationship. It’s subconscious and I hate how it affects my relationships. Went to a counselor today as well but he just gave me excersizes for anxiety rather than clarify my underlying issues.
Any help to move on/ get this one back would be banger thanks!