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Elusive

Space Monkey
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Hey guys

So Ive finally lost my virginity abroad with a British girl
Now we're both back in london and i want to start a casual thing with her - she is receptive BUT

I dont know how to run this

You see we were both volunteering abroad and we hooked up a couple of times out there in public we had we were working in the jungle

SO I didnt go through the whole meet her for drinks thing and then fuck

Now that were in London is it too presumptous to invite myself round to hers or should I just for the first meet for a drink and then go from there?

And what else can you do: watch a movie at hers - her cook for me at hers, anything else?

how do I execute this: Something tells me I dont just say Ill come over to your place

I mean what is the dialogue to be used that doesnt ring alarm bells and still makes the girl feel valued?

Thanks all comments appreciated - this is a time seensitive matter :)
 

ray_zorse

Modern Human
Modern Human
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Had a feeling I'd seen some articles about this.
https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-g ... u-just-met
https://www.girlschase.com/content/going ... ore-yesses
Apart from that I don't know -- in-car escalation? But I agree with your concern that "dating" her definitely looks like a backward step. What about booty calling her late when your parents are asleep, or something like that? If you want FWB I don't think you should be TOO concerned with making her feel valued, your frame is the dick is available. Are you meetimg and dating / sleeping with other girls? Cos if not you may want to move a bit more cautiously, more like a boyfriend, this can be a double edged sword of course (higher attainability, but potentially lowers your value).
Ray
 
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