How to act after being rejected by a girl if you have to see her again in group?

[razir110]

Hi everyone!

A question here, so I've asked this girl out like twice, she didn't accept. We stopped talking for a few days. Now she messaged me.
Honestly I'm not into talking to her, not because I'm butt-hurt, but because I kinda don't care anymore, I've met other amazing girls these days and my mind shifted. Plus she is playing me, she really thinks she can have me orbiting around like one of her other pet guys.

So if I could, I wouldn't talk to or see her again, but I can't because she is part of the group of people who I hang out with sometimes and I am sure she will appear again at some point. And I don't want shit atmosphere among us.

So what is the best course of action in these cases? Do I reply in a dry manner, like "whatsup?" and freeze the conversation?

Like I don't want to transmit I am angry at her because I'm not. At the same time I'd like to let her know I'm not gotta keep talking to her. I mean if she wants to fuck yeah, I'd say yes, but I won't move a finger to make it happen. So this is the message I want to get across. I am not angry or butt-hurt, but I am also not fueling any more talk.

How do you act in these cases?

Peace!

 

[Hue]

Re: How to act after being rejected by a girl if you have to see her again in gr

In your texts be stoic, low effort.

Her: Hey! How are you?
You: good you
Her: I'm doing pretty well
You: oh cool

She messaged you, after you asked her on a date. The angle you wanna play is "oh, wonder what she wants?", not "hmmph. you rejected me." She either wants to show she's still a little interested and is giving you a little interest jab with the text, wanting to see how you'll respond (testing you) or just wants you as an orbiter. Either way your version of that ^ is what I'd recommend.


In real life be friendly, yet aloof.

If you see her and you guys make eye contact or end up in some social interaction, a simple,

Her: *makes eye contact with you / joins some group setting of people you're in*
You: Oh hey [girl}. *slight smile, turn back to whatever you were doing before that*

Honestly I'm not into talking to her, not because I'm butt-hurt, but because I kinda don't care anymore, I've met other amazing girls these days and my mind shifted.

You seem to already get this, you just have to show that through your actions when interacting with her.