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Okay, it's about time I asked this because I have no clue. Things are getting way too awkward and I'm just making things worse.
Every so often, I see girls that I've cold approached before on campus or other various places. Some of them, I did well with, got their numbers, etc. some of them I messed up with escalation.
Today I ran into 3 girls that have auto rejected me and I tried talking to them like everything was fine but let's just say that girls are silly and cute and think that acting like a complete bitch is going to affect me. It doesn't.
I'm just concerned because they keep making things awkward while I've already moved on and replaced them.
(don't chase em, replace em)
Since I HAVE to see many of them on a daily basis, I think it's only right that I should smile and exchange pleasantries and whatnot but all these auto-rejected girls either treat me like I'm a complete asshole or like I'm the weird autistic guy everyone wants to stay away from.
It doesn't make me feel very good. It leaves this awkward energy in the air and I have trouble living with that. I don't like to be on ANYONE'S bad side...and I don't have much experience being a "hated" guy. Everyone usually loves me.
So my question is, what do I do about these girls? Help me become a little bit more socially calibrated so I can finally "get it"
Do I just stare straight ahead and ignore their presence?
Do I approach them and say "no hard feelings, right?" or "we can be friends now, right?"
I just want them to know that I'm not a horrible person so that they don't go around messing up my reputation telling other girls about me.
Every so often, I see girls that I've cold approached before on campus or other various places. Some of them, I did well with, got their numbers, etc. some of them I messed up with escalation.
Today I ran into 3 girls that have auto rejected me and I tried talking to them like everything was fine but let's just say that girls are silly and cute and think that acting like a complete bitch is going to affect me. It doesn't.
I'm just concerned because they keep making things awkward while I've already moved on and replaced them.
(don't chase em, replace em)
Since I HAVE to see many of them on a daily basis, I think it's only right that I should smile and exchange pleasantries and whatnot but all these auto-rejected girls either treat me like I'm a complete asshole or like I'm the weird autistic guy everyone wants to stay away from.
It doesn't make me feel very good. It leaves this awkward energy in the air and I have trouble living with that. I don't like to be on ANYONE'S bad side...and I don't have much experience being a "hated" guy. Everyone usually loves me.
So my question is, what do I do about these girls? Help me become a little bit more socially calibrated so I can finally "get it"
Do I just stare straight ahead and ignore their presence?
Do I approach them and say "no hard feelings, right?" or "we can be friends now, right?"
I just want them to know that I'm not a horrible person so that they don't go around messing up my reputation telling other girls about me.
