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How to Approach Girls in a Taxi

Troy

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Very often I find myself in a taxi and there are girls I'd want to meet . If it's worth mentioning these are " robot " taxis. What's that? A independent taxi driver that fulls his car before leaving the taxi park. He doesn't charter / carry one person.

Anyway, I left home 15 minutes ago and while I was walking up the road a cute girl passed the intersection and was way ahead of me. A taxi passed further up and stopped for both of us. I walked faster. Two big men were in the back seat. The cute dark girl went in and sat next to them and I sat at the door seat. The back seat was now full and we were so close she had to rub up against me.

I wanted to open her but I didn't. I kept thinking and thinking the best situational opener. I usually don't like the spot light. I didn't want to talk and get everyone could hear .

The driver was right in front. And a passenger beside him . My plan after 5 minutes of thinking was to open her as soon as we reached the town . Then this happened... She came out and accidentally pushed the car door and my foot. She thought I was coming out on the other side. She apologized and walked off . I walked about 10 metres behind her .I wasn't just looking to approach ,I actually had to go in that direction. Like a minute after I decided I " wasn't going to approach " so I passed her even though she was walking real fast and I boarded a bus to go to the city. She came on the bus too and right now she is at the front and I'm seated in the middle. I'll do my best to relax after typing this. I plan to approach her when we get off the bus . Based on how she is dressed I know we come off at the same stop in town . What can I change ? How should I approach girls in a taxi ? How do I stop fearing people will over hear what I say ? And since all this time has passed what's the best way to approach her once I come off the bus? I'm closer to the door so I'll come off before.

I come off the bus in 10 minutes

Troy
 

Troy

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OK so here's the final piece to this story from yesterday. The bus had soon reached the bus stop and the girl got up before and stood at the door. When the bus stopped she came off before me. I came off and she was walking fast already. I decided I WAS REALLY going to APPROACH. I walked faster and caught up. I naturally walked up beside her matching her pace. I kept my head straight and opened

Troy: Hey you from my area ( statement )

Chocolate: ( I just felt like giving her that name, because of her nice dark skin) Hi yeah

Troy : You saw me coming out of the Alley . Which side of Eltha Town you from? First I'm seeing you around

Chocolate: I'm from Gg

Troy : OK.... ( Right where the dots are I was going to compliment her on her attire)

Chocolate : ( starts talking to another girl who was in the bus. The 3 of us are walking fast .

They were talking about how the conductor tried to give the next girl back incorrect change as if he wanted to rob her.

Imo they were talking like old friends so I assumed Chocolate was rejecting me. I was already very nervous.

We came to the intersection and both girls stopped talking ( that's when I realized they didn't know each other). Chocolate kept walking straight .Chocolate then looked back at me and she paused for a micro second, she was 15 metres away from me. I was using my peripheral vision to tell. I was headed across the street and so was the other girl. The light was on green so we couldn't cross as yet. I turned to the other girl and asked " you know her you two talk like old friends ?". The girls reply " no but that's how people who are in similar situations react like old friends ". Me " head nod "

The light changed to red and I crossed the street . That's the end .

Guys I didn't want to look " chasy ", some feeling I may have to change to start getting more of what I want. I could have " followed behind her and open again. By then I was even more nervous.

Looking back at this I have two questions : How can I develop a " I don't care what others think " attitude and go for what I want even if I'll look desperate?

I don't mean I want to become none caring 100%, I want just enough so I stop letting how others look at me , limit me from going for what I want. How do I do this and what else could I have improved in my approach ?

Troy
 
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Troy,

I've been in taxis too and always struggled to talk to girls, anyone as a matter of fact. Anyone knows the best approach? I take the taxi to and from work everyday and there are lots of girls I've seen regularly who have also seen me but we never talk.

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