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I am specifically asking about 2 cases.
Case 1: You're walking behind a girl who is walking much faster than you. If I increase my pace to catch up with her, she hears my fast pace and turns around, sees how fast i'm walking, and I lose the dominant frame. I've thought about noting a detail of her outfit e.g. black boots and shouting hey <insert detail>! Wait up. I don't do this though because I don't think the girl would interpret it's her or even hear me (she's wearing earbuds)
case 2: A girl is headed directly toward you. If you open her by also heading straight toward her you are giving her you're full body posture and eye contact, which is a no-no, meanwhile you tend to blend into the crowd a bit I imagine, as women are not expecting men approaching them to actually come up and start conversation with them. I read about the stop and swivel technique, but if they do not look back that just leads back to case 1.
If you guys could give me some tips and techniques to try out in these 2 scenarios, I would greatly appreciate it.
Case 1: You're walking behind a girl who is walking much faster than you. If I increase my pace to catch up with her, she hears my fast pace and turns around, sees how fast i'm walking, and I lose the dominant frame. I've thought about noting a detail of her outfit e.g. black boots and shouting hey <insert detail>! Wait up. I don't do this though because I don't think the girl would interpret it's her or even hear me (she's wearing earbuds)
case 2: A girl is headed directly toward you. If you open her by also heading straight toward her you are giving her you're full body posture and eye contact, which is a no-no, meanwhile you tend to blend into the crowd a bit I imagine, as women are not expecting men approaching them to actually come up and start conversation with them. I read about the stop and swivel technique, but if they do not look back that just leads back to case 1.
If you guys could give me some tips and techniques to try out in these 2 scenarios, I would greatly appreciate it.
