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How to avoid chasing looking behaviours while proceeding to the next date with this girl?

Witcher

Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
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Hello everyone!

I would want your inputs about how to proceed with this girl while avoiding any chasing looking behavior!

Prolog:
The girl in question is from my extended social circle with who always had a kind of flirty relation but I lost touch with her for like a year and a half. Last week since I had some business near where she studies I pinged her (a la Seppuku) and after some back and forth I asked her to meet, she agreed and we had a short "informational date". By the end of the meeting, we agreed to see each other again (True one to one date) when her exams are over. I also managed to put a small sexual frame at the end by advising her to study well since I don't want to have any bad influence on her.

The Problem
The problem is that at the moment, I didn't bother to ask her when her exam will be over, there were no strategic moves here or insecurity, just me being a little bit careless. So I messaged her the next day and after a good fluff talk I asked her to "Reminds me when she finishes her exam". She responded that it will be on the 28th of November. I answered with "Great", then no other communication between us happened. I didn't message her again the same for her.

The problem is it's more than 2 weeks and I would love to know the best and smoothest way to proceed to that next date! Of course without Chasing or giving the impression that I am waiting for that day!

Other helpful suggestions and comments are also more than welcome!

Thanks!
 

DoWhatWorks

Tribal Elder
Tribal Elder
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Overthinking it my man - just say "Hey what day on the weekend of the 28th would you be free to hang out?" Then have some back and forth to confirm a place and time so that it's real in her head then text her a day before to-reconfirm & reduce the chance of a flake.

You've got this!
 
the right date makes getting her back home a piece of cake
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