Online & Apps how to beat law of least effort being used on you

[Anonymous]

ok so there is his is girl(duh)...well iv asked her out sometime back and i got friend zoned.
iv been busy with other girls ever since and now i been trying to get back at her and i know she likes me...now any way

I can make her stammer and go wide eyed when we talk in public but texting and chatting online
she uses the law of least effort on me.its so frustrating. most of the time the conversation would go something like this
me: hey
her: hi
me: so whats up?
her: nothing much
her: wbu?
me: killing zombies :3
her: ok
me: so watched the avengers?
her: yes
me: how was it?
her: ok i guess
^see what i mean its so frustrating when she becomes like this.is this using the law of least effort or she just giving me the cold shoulder...if it is the law of least effort how can i turn the tables around???
pls help
Don.C

 

[Mr. oblivious]

ok so there is his is girl(duh)...well iv asked her out sometime back and i got friend zoned.
iv been busy with other girls ever since and now i been trying to get back at her and i know she likes me...now any way

I can make her stammer and go wide eyed when we talk in public but texting and chatting online
she uses the law of least effort on me.its so frustrating. most of the time the conversation would go something like this
me: hey
her: hi
me: so whats up?
her: nothing much
her: wbu?
me: killing zombies :3
her: ok
me: so watched the avengers?
her: yes
me: how was it?
her: ok i guess
^see what i mean its so frustrating when she becomes like this.is this using the law of least effort or she just giving me the cold shoulder...if it is the law of least effort how can i turn the tables around???
pls help
Don.C

me: hey (this opening is boring make connections with your opening give her sometime to work with at least)
her: hi (this is all she could reply with unless she was chasing hard which i don't think is the case)
me: so whats up? (again generic and not the most interesting but i guess acceptable)
her: nothing much (if she is not giving you much call her on it , try get something back)

here is an example
Me: So whats up?
Her: Nothing much
Me: That is the most original response iv heard ________ (where the ___ you can write something situational i.e. if you sexual with the person a sexual comment e.g. i bet you ...) (from experience only use sarcasm if the person knows your a sarcastic person in person cause its harder to convey over text)


her: wbu? (she is stuck in generic mode cause you started generic and continued generic she probably had this exact conversation with a number of guys and is just sticking to her mental template. You need to make your conversation unique)
me: killing zombies :3
her: ok
me: so watched the avengers?
her: yes
me: how was it?
her: ok i guess


To sum it up your conversation was stale and generic and you need to make it unique and actually make it possible for her to give you something back. This type of conversation may work with girls chasing hard so they reply super long messages to ya and try get your attention but this will not cut it for a girl who you where friend zoned with. (conversations like this is why you where probably friend zoned)


I may be completely wrong since text game is one of my weak points so if any more experience members are on feel free to correct any errors i may have made