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how to break resistance when girl cannot speak english

dcman

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i meet this russian girl that did not speak much english. was using google translate to communicate to her. i invited her for dinner. did non verbal escalation as possible touching etc during dinner. she was permitting me to touch a little and afterwards was feeling uncomfortable. girl does not drink, is religious and conservative. managed to convince her to come to my place for a short time . but always kept insisted on me calling for a taxi to pick her as could not speak the language. if i had a day or two more with her i felt i could have broken the resistance as she would have felt comfortable .

wanted to get suggestions on how others would have handled this better ?
 

Ambiance

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Hey DCman-

From my limited experience doing this, nonverbals and sprezzatura are your friend. The right facial expression can convey everything you need to communicate.

Two things that might help:

Read Chase's article on Getting Foreign Women
Watch the California Pimp. It doesn't show his face, but if you listen to his voice and look at his body movements you can get a sense of how he puts girls at ease (remember how what you actually say is like 7% of what is communicated, according to many vetted studies)

Onwards and Upwards,

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