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Rusty

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I met this girl about 5 months ago. Dated her on and off. Long story short, I want to break it off with her.

I need to focus my time and energy on improving myself and establishing my career. She takes a lot of time and mental energy from me. While she isn't malicious, to me, her needs and lifestyle are a drain to me, both financially and physically. I can't devote the time I need and my focus is off.

She's very clingy. Doesn't accept what I say. She thinks that my reasons for why I want to break up with her are excuses and she just won't accept that I don't want to be with her. I think she is mentally unsound on some level. Most girls would have walked away out of pride. This girl keeps holding on and I don't know what to do. She is stubborn and always wants to have her way.

She's emotionally blackmailed me, saying that she'll kill herself and that she can't go on without me.

Honestly, I don't know what to do. I need to move on from this relationship. What should I do? I feel pretty stupid right now.
 
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