How to close girls who are more shy/nice and don't give you shit-tests in online game?

[OnwardsAndUpwards]

All my good interactions online (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge) have been from girls who give me shit-tests that I can turn around and keep passing more shit-tests until I get a number close and then plans for date.

But there's a subsection of girls who are just shy/nice and calm and don't shit-test you that much (similar to shy girls IRL) that I find much harder. Usually IRL with these types of girls, I'd just escalate physically and all would be good, but online obv you can't.

Like they still ask me questions, laugh at my stuff, and try to continue the conversation, but the conversation risks dying out and turning platonic bc there's less teases/passing of shit-tests to keep the convo alive, sexual, and fun.

How do I convert these shyer/nicer girls online?

 

[Rakehell]

Hey Onwards,

in my experience these are the easiest girls but when I first started encountering them I didn’t think so.

I have a strong presence and personality so I was scaring alot of these girls away initially, until I didn’t.

Don’t let these “shy” or “nice” girls fool you they can still be mean, snappy, and testy. It’s just she’s more than likely really attracted to you so much so that she views you in a higher light than herself.

Since you are used to dealing with testy girls I assume you are pretty confident in yourself. This probably translates in the way you interact with everybody so I suggest you tone it down with shy girls because they are already highly attracted.

Since you are online you may want to do this by teasing less (unless she teases ofc), and focus on building comfort and attainability so that she feels comfortable meeting up with you.

You know how girls turn into puddy shortly after you pass a tough test? Think of her like that. In her eyes she doesn’t have to test because she already wants you badly, so you must make her feel comfortable enough to meet up.

Do this by deep diving, finding out what she values, relating to and qualifying what she says, taking her back to her childhood, finding out what she dreams of doing, etc.

You can still throw in some sexual innuendo but girls like these more than likely already want you sexually imo.

I once was talking to this shy girl and asked playfully “if she dreamed about me”. She told me she actually has dreamed about me before and when I asked the context she said I was fucking her.

Hope this helps