How to close/keep this milf exclusive fwb?

[imperialism]

Djs, i’m like 90% assured this milf be entertaining other. Idc, i wanna hit. And i’m saying this so that somebody tell me of a way where i can lock this milf down where she become an exclusive FWB

Background info; went out twice with this milf, alot of kissing not yet fuckin, we plannin to once she is back. She asked me a while ago to text her more frequently but i feel that doing that would kill any attraction whatsoever. 1. Do i text her more often?
2. What can i do so that she becomes an exclusive fwb for me? 3. Last text i sent got simply a heart-reaction on the i miss your face and she didn’t even send a voice note so a bit fucked up. I’m gonna ignore her for a week, and then resend a text or should wait for her to reinitiate contact again?

Here are the latest texts:
Me: Do you know how i know that you have good taste?
Her:
Me: Because you are speaking to me
Her: Yea
Me:
Her:
Me: I want you to check your work schedule
Her: It's still early, he'll be out by the end of next week
Her: I know
Her:
Her:
Me: Because on the same weekend you’re back i want to take you out, we go for a few drinks, and then i want take you back home and fuck you all night long
Me: Night and morning
Me: You say its hard work by albert heijn? You will work harder here
Me: I will fix your back for you
Her:
Me : Send me a message then tell me when you don’t have to work so i don’t plan something else
Her: Ok

After 1 week

Her : hi, I will be working from 26 to 29.10
Her: next week from October 30th not yet known
Her:
Me: Do you always work the same days or does it change every time?
Her: It changes often, but when I get there I want to talk about a permanent schedule
Me: That’s better
Me: Because i miss your face
Me: Say in a voice note “here is energy”

 

[HoofHearted]

most likely, people gonna fuck. Unless it's committed/exclusive thing, and even then, sometimes.

I think maybe prolly just slow down and focus on the next step, i.e. actually having sex with her first, rather than, uh, owning her.

 

[imperialism]

most likely, people gonna fuck. Unless it's committed/exclusive thing, and even then, sometimes.

I think maybe prolly just slow down and focus on the next step, i.e. actually having sex with her first, rather than, uh, owning her.

Now on my last text, i got a reaction, not really a good sign. I’m thinking of texting her in a week, ask about her availability and then schedule the date? Or do you think i just wait for her text?

 

[HoofHearted]

Oh I don't know

This looks sloppy and not tight, but that doesn't it mean it ain't happening

Clean up how you do things. Meet and interact with more girls asap. Ping this girl when it seems reasonable, particularly if you know her schedule, and realize this is far from a done deal. My sense is 50/50 at best, or probably not gonna work out. This seems a slightly less than okay lead. Go get more leads and quit thinking about this one so much.

My suggestion is never wait on a woman, thats a recipe for a big fat nothin'.

 

[imperialism]

Oh I don't know

This looks sloppy and not tight, but that doesn't it mean it ain't happening

Clean up how you do things. Meet and interact with more girls asap. Ping this girl when it seems reasonable, particularly if you know her schedule, and realize this is far from a done deal. My sense is 50/50 at best, or probably not gonna work out. This seems a slightly less than okay lead. Go get more leads and quit thinking about this one so much.

My suggestion is never wait on a woman, thats a recipe for a big fat nothin'.

Wym by clean how you do things?
On meeting new leads, i’ve been approaching like crazy, getting numbers, and then no replies.
Some people advice social circle game, do you know anything about that?

 

[TomInHo]

Exclusive FWB?

Why would you even care about that when you haven't even laid her. Fuck first and let her be the one to be exclusive. Ironically when you don't force it they want it more

Here are the latest texts:
Me: Do you know how i know that you have good taste?
Her:
Me: Because you are speaking to me
Her: Yea
Me:
Her:
Me: I want you to check your work schedule
Her: It's still early, he'll be out by the end of next week
Her: I know
Her:
Her:
Me: Because on the same weekend you’re back i want to take you out, we go for a few drinks, and then i want take you back home and fuck you all night long
Me: Night and morning
Me: You say its hard work by albert heijn? You will work harder here
Me: I will fix your back for you
Her:
Me : Send me a message then tell me when you don’t have to work so i don’t plan something else
Her: Ok

Also, this text exchange is horrible IMO. The beginning was good but your sexting was very uncalibrated. It's never a good idea to tell a girl that you are going to fuck her so explicitly, especially before she has bought into the idea herself. You can hint at it, maybe if do some rich descriptions to getting her imagining what it could be like

But this girl is not bought in yet, so being too explicit will backfire. That's exactly why she is leaving you on read. She feels too much pressure that next time she sees you that sex MUST HAPPEN.... that gives girls anxiety

After 1 week

Her : hi, I will be working from 26 to 29.10
Her: next week from October 30th not yet known
Her:
Me: Do you always work the same days or does it change every time?
Her: It changes often, but when I get there I want to talk about a permanent schedule
Me: That’s better
Me: Because i miss your face
Me: Say in a voice note “here is energy”

See

Look what being too direct does.

So to recalibrate you should text her again asap and build some basic momentum and compliance without directly saying you're going to fuck her next time. Make her wonder a little bit and she'll be more open to meeting up with you again

 

[imperialism]

Exclusive FWB?

Why would you even care about that when you haven't even laid her. Fuck first and let her be the one to be exclusive. Ironically when you don't force it they want it more




Also, this text exchange is horrible IMO. The beginning was good but your sexting was very uncalibrated. It's never a good idea to tell a girl that you are going to fuck her so explicitly, especially before she has bought into the idea herself. You can hint at it, maybe if do some rich descriptions to getting her imagining what it could be like

But this girl is not bought in yet, so being too explicit will backfire. That's exactly why she is leaving you on read. She feels too much pressure that next time she sees you that sex MUST HAPPEN.... that gives girls anxiety




See

Look what being too direct does.

So to recalibrate you should text her again asap and build some basic momentum and compliance without directly saying you're going to fuck her next time. Make her wonder a little bit and she'll be more open to meeting up with you again

What should i text her then?

 

[HoofHearted]

Wym by clean how you do things?

You know, I'm not the best person to explain this. I am not a teacher. "I am not role model" hahaha

Just a guy flying by.

But you're doing farrrr too much and breaking several best practices. HR will be contacting you shortly.

Some people advice social circle game, do you know anything about that?

I don't know. In my circles, I am a beloved/semi-famous figure. I don't fuck around a lot here myself, but when desirable women go into hungry mode I get a turn, a lot of the time the first one.

I don't see social circle in this way because I like what I have too much for other reasons. It's high quality stuff. Not worth the fallout or the changes imo.

I prefer to fish for strange

(That's a dumb sentence but it amused me)

 

[TomInHo]

Oh wait... I just saw that she gave a reaction.

Yes I would wait a few days and start the process from scratch again. Because she said she is working on the 26th meaning she might be able to meet before then if you strike the right tone in your upcoming texts

 

[imperialism]

Oh wait... I just saw that she gave a reaction.

Yes I would wait a few days and start the process from scratch again. Because she said she is working on the 26th meaning she might be able to meet before then if you strike the right tone in your upcoming texts

I was thinking of waiting till thursday/friday. Her schedule should be out then, if she doesn’t text, i will text and be like are you back to holland?
if she says yes i am
I will say “now you can take these off”

I’ve teased her before because she is in ukraine rn and i told her to wear knee elbow protection and a helmet for little kids when they want to learn how to drive a bicycle for the first time.