Hello everyone,
I am looking to Optimize My Texting Style and would like to have your opinion on the approach I am taking and other advice you may have.
In GC Texting Guide, we usually reference 3 texting styles: Minimalist, Conversational, and Seductive, with @Chase usually advocating for Minimalist Style.
By default, I use the Conversational Style and recently add the Bonding Calls. I usually get good results with them, having been regularly able to attract, connect and get dates with girls Online and my Extended Social Circle through various social media and messaging apps.
However, other times I don't keep my eye on the ball and fall into "The Endless Conversation Guy" or Really, Incredibly Witty and Interesting Guy" and continue the attraction/connection games while it's no longer necessary until at one moment it backfires and they auto-reject. Also, the conversation style can be very time and energy-consuming since it makes girls start conversations with you or share memes and reels with which I feel that I have to engage at least partly.
To solve this, I am considering integrating the Minimalist Style into my process which is fully focused on getting her out through a precise series of texts. So, I would use the Conversational style and Bonding Call until the girl agrees to go on a date, then switch to the Minimalist style and not waste any more time in endless back-and-forth chat on Social Media. The process would look like this :
My main issue with that is, Will it not backfire too? Will the girl notice a change in the communication style after the date is agreed, upon and feel off about it and auto-reject too? What should I do now when between these scheduling texts she engages with me? Ignore, engage fully, engage lightly?
Thanks
I am looking to Optimize My Texting Style and would like to have your opinion on the approach I am taking and other advice you may have.
In GC Texting Guide, we usually reference 3 texting styles: Minimalist, Conversational, and Seductive, with @Chase usually advocating for Minimalist Style.
By default, I use the Conversational Style and recently add the Bonding Calls. I usually get good results with them, having been regularly able to attract, connect and get dates with girls Online and my Extended Social Circle through various social media and messaging apps.
However, other times I don't keep my eye on the ball and fall into "The Endless Conversation Guy" or Really, Incredibly Witty and Interesting Guy" and continue the attraction/connection games while it's no longer necessary until at one moment it backfires and they auto-reject. Also, the conversation style can be very time and energy-consuming since it makes girls start conversations with you or share memes and reels with which I feel that I have to engage at least partly.
To solve this, I am considering integrating the Minimalist Style into my process which is fully focused on getting her out through a precise series of texts. So, I would use the Conversational style and Bonding Call until the girl agrees to go on a date, then switch to the Minimalist style and not waste any more time in endless back-and-forth chat on Social Media. The process would look like this :
- Part One: Connection/Attraction using conversational texting style and bonding calls until the girl agrees on a date.
- Part Two: when the girl agrees on a date, I switch to the minimalist style where the objective is now to get her out. And stop communicating with her much
My main issue with that is, Will it not backfire too? Will the girl notice a change in the communication style after the date is agreed, upon and feel off about it and auto-reject too? What should I do now when between these scheduling texts she engages with me? Ignore, engage fully, engage lightly?
Thanks
