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How to deal with a smoker?

ramirezs316

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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I find smoking a total turn off. It might be my number one pet peeve. I got the number of a hot bartender who is totally into me, but I think she might be a smoker. I still went for the date and we might do something soon. But I'm worried that if we get intimate, her habit might turn me off. Should I tell her this? What would I say, "Hey, before we get hot and heavy, can you brush your teeth and put on some perfume?" Lol.
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
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Date someone else.

Plain and simple. If she wants to quit, she will quit. If she doesn't, she won't.
If you happened to date her longterm and she realized she wanted it, and it was important to you, perhaps she'd consider quitting, but don't think for a second a smoker will give up their ciggies for the next joe-schmoe who comes along asking for her number.

If it's that big a deal breaker for you, do both of yourselves a favor and date another girl... you know... abundance and all that good stuff.

Sorry man, this smells of guys looking for those PUA-Magic-Jedi-Mind-Tricks... despite what RSD will teach you, they do not exist.
 
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