hey mystique how's going brother
what is a great sense of humor man I
am super duper confused.
I'm doing great man, thanks for asking. There's wit and there's dry sense of humour. They can both interlap and sometimes can be the same thing.
Wit
This is the ability to think fast and say clever things under short time constraints.
It can also be defined as quick and clever humour.
Dry Humour
This is saying something funny (or witty) with a neutral voice tone and facial expression. The opposite is sometimes called wet humour where the speaker makes funny (or sometimes absurd) facial expressions, changes his voice tone and he might even start cracking up while he's saying it. It becomes obvious to everyone that he's saying something funny. Dry humour is the opposite. When using dry humour, you can say something funny or deliver a punchline but still keep a neutral voice tone like you were talking about the weather. Your facial expression can be neutral or throw on a bored look. It might take the individual a second to figure out the punchline, but once he does he'll crack up. If you're making a friendly witty jab at your pal, you can throw on a wry/slight smile so he'll know you're kidding. If you're making a comeback at your friend, you can deliver it with a smirk.
The good thing about dry humour is that you delivered it in a neutral way so if they laugh, to them you are a natural and smart coz you were not trying to be funny; and if they don't, you haven't lost anything because well - you weren't trying to be funny - so you won't lose face.
If you read Chase's articles, you'll observe that he's quite witty. Even proper chase and sexual framing requires wits and humour (check out those two articles). If you're using witty remarks or dry sense of humour with a girl, I think you can either throw on a smirk or give her a sexy (or warm) smile.
Suggestions on how to develop wit and dry sense of humour
Check out Chase's article on old sex symbols and modern sex symbols. He talks about Connery having a wrier sense of humour than Clooney. Those role models he suggests, check out their movies and watch how they use it. Watch their facial expressions and voice tones when they deliver their witty punchlines. What I do when I hear something witty is I rewind it until I grasp fully the words and if I love the lines so much, I'll write it down. It helps.
Also, google popular quotes (most of them are witty) and witty sayings to have some examples that you can go to.
I think condition for being with girls
and group situation will be different
so how to do it in group correctly.
It's like asking what's the difference when talking to a guy/girl and when talking to a group of guys/girls - you have to train up your social intuition and learn to calibrate based on the situation. You still need social calibration when talking one on one with a girl, so I doubt it changes much.
I have questions to ask
how to use sarcasm that I do not
Come as whiner ( I think most is
facial expressions but things do not
works in group situations).
Here's a definition of sarcasm
A sharp form of humor, intended to hurt, that is marked by mocking with irony, sometimes conveyed in speech with vocal over-emphasis. Insincerely saying something which is the opposite of one's intended meaning, often to emphasize how unbelievable or unlikely it sounds if taken literally, thereby illustrating the obvious nature of one's intended meaning.
I don't see how that has anything to do with coming off as a whiner. All you have to do here is use irony and exaggerations (some exaggerated facial expressions can apply). Again, google examples of sarcastic remarks and you'll have an idea of what it's like. As for the group situation, like I said, you'll have to calibrate accordingly.
how to adapt humor in different
cultural like you and I live in different
countries show you suggested are of
different country so how do I adapt it
according to my country
This is like asking if what is taught on GC works specifically on certain countries or if you'll have to change tactics because of your country. Just like seduction principles are universal, so is being witty and having dry sense of humour. If you're witty, you're witty! Now obviously, the difference in environment might make what you'll talk about different. A witty guy in America might make some dry humour off the upcoming elections and the campaigns, over here in Nigeria I might make some witty comments about how superstitious Nigerians can be. While in India with a group of friends, you might just make a remark on how every guy freezes when talking to Punjabi girls because they're very pretty. Social calibration all the way man.
any exercises for learning to give
good facial expressions.
Check out Chase's article on 7 facial expressions. Try them out while looking at the mirror. Choose one or two to work on at a time. Check out the facial expressions of those sexy actors in movies and choose the ones to work on until you've mastered them. After that you can work on more facial expressions.
PS: You need to be patient when it comes to learning new things, seduction-wise. So just pick two things, master them to a certain extent and then move to learning another set of things. You can't rush it or cram everything in. I've learnt that It takes time to master these things.
Cheers!
