Hey There.
I'm new to this forum, but not to learning game.
I came from some other forums where I wasn't really getting great answers and accidently happened to find this one.
I'm trying to figure out how to CLOSE the Target-Girl in Group Sets of 2 and 3.
Some of these groups are mixed boy-girl.
I live in a place that has a focus on High Fashion and Art. And most of the very hot girls I try and approach are almost always in groups of 2 or 3.
I mostly do Day Game.
I've studied a guy on youtube who explains a great way to open girls in groups sets, but doesn't really explain how to CLOSE the Target-Girl when the friend or friends are there, and you can't isolate.
I have 4 recent set examples below...
The guys on the other forums almost unequivocally say - you CAN'T close a target girl in a groups set.
And instead they recommend to solely focus on individual girls.
But I'm like:
"you sure about that?"
Now I can only write about the Group Sets of 3 this round.
Then later the 2 Duo Sets...
Set 1:
I was helping out at an Event at a very historical building.
I wasn't working with the main crew, more-so helping out.
It's a wicked place with a bunch of history and haunted stories. I chose the event to get-in with the people at the building not necessarily the main event crew. Before the event I got a personal tour of the place. "Be Aware of the Lady in the Red Dress." Guests see her, but she's not real.
Anyway, one of the older main event crew people said his Daughter, Son and his Fiancé were visiting from D.C. and coming early so I should let them in.
When they arrived I was kinda floored. The Daughter was a Tall Persian type girl, smokin' wearing a Sheer see-through red blouse. I'm a big-boob-guy and her breasts were large and awesome. I could totally see the areolas and dime-sized-nipples. made me think very naughty things.
But I was like - I HAVE TO GAME THIS GIRL!
It was weird, because her brother looked more like a white-guy, not Persian, and he was dressed real-square, and so was his Fiancé. She was cute, and they looked like they fit each other.
Anyway, the Father came by and they did their hellos, and he leaned to me and said - can you entertain them for a bit until the event starts , I'm really busy. I was like sure.
So I began taking them on a mini-tour of this crazy haunted historical place.
First thing I did, per the guy I've studied from youtube was to tell the Brother and his Fiancé - "you two, seem cool. We could totally hang out."
Then I swiveled to the Sheer Red Blouse - Now, you look like total trouble!"
They all laughed.
And I followed it up with, to the Brother - "I bet she's a handful when you go out, right?"
And again he kinda laughed and agreed.
Then I asked what they were doing in town, and how long they were staying.
The Sheer Red Blouse was staying about a week, whereas the Brother and Fiancé were only staying a couple of days.
So I began the mini-tour and learned that the Sheer Red Blouse grew up outside of San Francisco with her Mother, and went to Berkley, but is now studying at GW in D.C. to become a Doctor!
Whereas the Brother (I guess from a different mother) mainly grew up in D.C.
So I focused on the tour. thinking to myself - how the hell do I isolate the Sheer Red Blouse, and ask her to meet-up while she's in town to get her number. BUT the Brother and Fiancé were right there.
I took the Sheer Red Blouse asking me questions like - "So you must know a lot about history since you know so much about this building?" as a good sign???
But then we got back to the main entrance where their Father was, and it became awkward.
I looked at her, she looked at me.
The Brother and Fiancé were just standing there.
So I said - "Well, hey I know of some cool places around town if you want a recommendation. I can give you my info if you'd like."
They said, "yeah sure..." And kinda fake put my number into their phones.
Then I told them to have a good night at the event...
I did get the Sheer Red Blouse's full name and the next day looked her up on instagram. I messaged her and she did respond back, but with a polite "thanks for the tour and offer to see the town, but I'm all booked up - take care!"
So yeah... How and what could I have done better here to actually CLOSE the see-through Sheer Red Blouse??
Set 2:
I was meeting up with my buddy at a fancy coffee place.
Ahead of me was this super-cute tan blonde wearing a tube-top, exposed flat belly with short-tight jeans with an Australian or New Zealand accent.
I had just watched a video on how to tell the difference between and Australian or New Zealand accent the night before, cuz New Zealander's get real-pissed if you call them Australian.
Again she was in a group of 3. All of them had accents. There was a cute, but not as attractive brunette, and tall heavy-set guy with a beard, Hawaiian shirt, tan dockers and a pair of vans. He had really bad skin.
I thought - this must be the friend-zone guy, cuz I can't see either of these girls really being with him.
The brunette was a bit more ordinary looks-wise, but she had good style and took care of herself.
Anyway, I couldn't do much with them in line cuz they were talking.
I got my drink and went to the patio to meet up with my buddy.
As I sat down they went by, but with the Australian trailing, so I grabbed her attention by asking - "Hey, I overheard your accent in line. You are either Australian, or New Zealand. Let me ask you, what do you call a Cooler for like Cold Drinks?"
She answered - "An Eskie"
And I was like - "BOOM, You're Australian."
She was like - "How'd you know?
I replied - "Cuz, I just watched a video on how to tell the difference between an Australian and New Zealander, and since they sound sooo much the same you ask what a cooler is called. Cuz Australians call 'em Eskie's and Kiwi's call 'em an Icebox..."
She seemed impressed but then joined her friends.
I leaned into my buddy and said - "Man, I gotta figure out how to get this chicks info. Ya know with the friends."
He replied - "Don't know man. I meet girls in bars or online..."
(He's an older social circle guy who doesn't really believe in Day Game)
Anyway, later when he and I were leaving, I approached and opened the whole group.
Again, like the above I pointed to the Australian and said to the Male, also including the brunette friend - "I can totally tell that she is trouble. Not just because she's Australian, but... I mean, just look at her."
Everyone laughed.
Then I asked - "So you guys all visiting from Australia?"
So no, actually the brunette was from Bulgaria and the Guy is from London.
They all attend this fancy art school down the block.
I teased the blonde a bit more but then hit a wall - on How the Hell do I CLOSE Her in front of the the friends. Especially when I've been calling her trouble this whole time and saying she's probably a handful to hang out with.
Basically at this point I asked - "You guys come here a lot?"
They said - "yeah."
So I ended it with - "Well, I'll probably see ya again here. nice meetin' ya and take it easy..."
Walking away racking my brain How to Effectively Close target-girl in Group Sets?
It did dawn on me about an hour later while I was stuck in traffic that I could've asked them to follow me on instagram and then just reach out to the Australian as if it were a phone number.
Challenge is that my instagram sucks, cuz I literally never use it, and actually don't like it.
My older buddy on the other hand, well, he works in social media marketing so like his profile is insane, and he meets chicks on there a lot. However - he meets them, but doesn't exactly get them out on dates...
The guy from youtube does recommend a good instagram presence - even if he doesn't have a personal one, cuz, well he's a seduction coach...
So yeah - what should I have done here?
Interested in your thoughts.
And, please, please don't waste my time with - "Dude, you can't close a girl in a groups set!"
I'm new to this forum, but not to learning game.
I came from some other forums where I wasn't really getting great answers and accidently happened to find this one.
I'm trying to figure out how to CLOSE the Target-Girl in Group Sets of 2 and 3.
Some of these groups are mixed boy-girl.
I live in a place that has a focus on High Fashion and Art. And most of the very hot girls I try and approach are almost always in groups of 2 or 3.
I mostly do Day Game.
I've studied a guy on youtube who explains a great way to open girls in groups sets, but doesn't really explain how to CLOSE the Target-Girl when the friend or friends are there, and you can't isolate.
I have 4 recent set examples below...
The guys on the other forums almost unequivocally say - you CAN'T close a target girl in a groups set.
And instead they recommend to solely focus on individual girls.
But I'm like:
"you sure about that?"
Now I can only write about the Group Sets of 3 this round.
Then later the 2 Duo Sets...
Set 1:
I was helping out at an Event at a very historical building.
I wasn't working with the main crew, more-so helping out.
It's a wicked place with a bunch of history and haunted stories. I chose the event to get-in with the people at the building not necessarily the main event crew. Before the event I got a personal tour of the place. "Be Aware of the Lady in the Red Dress." Guests see her, but she's not real.
Anyway, one of the older main event crew people said his Daughter, Son and his Fiancé were visiting from D.C. and coming early so I should let them in.
When they arrived I was kinda floored. The Daughter was a Tall Persian type girl, smokin' wearing a Sheer see-through red blouse. I'm a big-boob-guy and her breasts were large and awesome. I could totally see the areolas and dime-sized-nipples. made me think very naughty things.
But I was like - I HAVE TO GAME THIS GIRL!
It was weird, because her brother looked more like a white-guy, not Persian, and he was dressed real-square, and so was his Fiancé. She was cute, and they looked like they fit each other.
Anyway, the Father came by and they did their hellos, and he leaned to me and said - can you entertain them for a bit until the event starts , I'm really busy. I was like sure.
So I began taking them on a mini-tour of this crazy haunted historical place.
First thing I did, per the guy I've studied from youtube was to tell the Brother and his Fiancé - "you two, seem cool. We could totally hang out."
Then I swiveled to the Sheer Red Blouse - Now, you look like total trouble!"
They all laughed.
And I followed it up with, to the Brother - "I bet she's a handful when you go out, right?"
And again he kinda laughed and agreed.
Then I asked what they were doing in town, and how long they were staying.
The Sheer Red Blouse was staying about a week, whereas the Brother and Fiancé were only staying a couple of days.
So I began the mini-tour and learned that the Sheer Red Blouse grew up outside of San Francisco with her Mother, and went to Berkley, but is now studying at GW in D.C. to become a Doctor!
Whereas the Brother (I guess from a different mother) mainly grew up in D.C.
So I focused on the tour. thinking to myself - how the hell do I isolate the Sheer Red Blouse, and ask her to meet-up while she's in town to get her number. BUT the Brother and Fiancé were right there.
I took the Sheer Red Blouse asking me questions like - "So you must know a lot about history since you know so much about this building?" as a good sign???
But then we got back to the main entrance where their Father was, and it became awkward.
I looked at her, she looked at me.
The Brother and Fiancé were just standing there.
So I said - "Well, hey I know of some cool places around town if you want a recommendation. I can give you my info if you'd like."
They said, "yeah sure..." And kinda fake put my number into their phones.
Then I told them to have a good night at the event...
I did get the Sheer Red Blouse's full name and the next day looked her up on instagram. I messaged her and she did respond back, but with a polite "thanks for the tour and offer to see the town, but I'm all booked up - take care!"
So yeah... How and what could I have done better here to actually CLOSE the see-through Sheer Red Blouse??
Set 2:
I was meeting up with my buddy at a fancy coffee place.
Ahead of me was this super-cute tan blonde wearing a tube-top, exposed flat belly with short-tight jeans with an Australian or New Zealand accent.
I had just watched a video on how to tell the difference between and Australian or New Zealand accent the night before, cuz New Zealander's get real-pissed if you call them Australian.
Again she was in a group of 3. All of them had accents. There was a cute, but not as attractive brunette, and tall heavy-set guy with a beard, Hawaiian shirt, tan dockers and a pair of vans. He had really bad skin.
I thought - this must be the friend-zone guy, cuz I can't see either of these girls really being with him.
The brunette was a bit more ordinary looks-wise, but she had good style and took care of herself.
Anyway, I couldn't do much with them in line cuz they were talking.
I got my drink and went to the patio to meet up with my buddy.
As I sat down they went by, but with the Australian trailing, so I grabbed her attention by asking - "Hey, I overheard your accent in line. You are either Australian, or New Zealand. Let me ask you, what do you call a Cooler for like Cold Drinks?"
She answered - "An Eskie"
And I was like - "BOOM, You're Australian."
She was like - "How'd you know?
I replied - "Cuz, I just watched a video on how to tell the difference between an Australian and New Zealander, and since they sound sooo much the same you ask what a cooler is called. Cuz Australians call 'em Eskie's and Kiwi's call 'em an Icebox..."
She seemed impressed but then joined her friends.
I leaned into my buddy and said - "Man, I gotta figure out how to get this chicks info. Ya know with the friends."
He replied - "Don't know man. I meet girls in bars or online..."
(He's an older social circle guy who doesn't really believe in Day Game)
Anyway, later when he and I were leaving, I approached and opened the whole group.
Again, like the above I pointed to the Australian and said to the Male, also including the brunette friend - "I can totally tell that she is trouble. Not just because she's Australian, but... I mean, just look at her."
Everyone laughed.
Then I asked - "So you guys all visiting from Australia?"
So no, actually the brunette was from Bulgaria and the Guy is from London.
They all attend this fancy art school down the block.
I teased the blonde a bit more but then hit a wall - on How the Hell do I CLOSE Her in front of the the friends. Especially when I've been calling her trouble this whole time and saying she's probably a handful to hang out with.
Basically at this point I asked - "You guys come here a lot?"
They said - "yeah."
So I ended it with - "Well, I'll probably see ya again here. nice meetin' ya and take it easy..."
Walking away racking my brain How to Effectively Close target-girl in Group Sets?
It did dawn on me about an hour later while I was stuck in traffic that I could've asked them to follow me on instagram and then just reach out to the Australian as if it were a phone number.
Challenge is that my instagram sucks, cuz I literally never use it, and actually don't like it.
My older buddy on the other hand, well, he works in social media marketing so like his profile is insane, and he meets chicks on there a lot. However - he meets them, but doesn't exactly get them out on dates...
The guy from youtube does recommend a good instagram presence - even if he doesn't have a personal one, cuz, well he's a seduction coach...
So yeah - what should I have done here?
Interested in your thoughts.
And, please, please don't waste my time with - "Dude, you can't close a girl in a groups set!"
