Special Girl How to get a 2nd date with a girl on tight schedule about to leave city

[empath]

Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?

 

[Skills]

Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?

Brah! I am speechless

 

[topcat]

Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?

The entire premise of the blog and this forum, is to get girls chasing you.

What part of this involves the girl chasing you?

None.

This is desperation and you’re wasting people's time..

 

[empath]

@Skills and @topcat

1)this is a post for a special girl.
2) not everyone wants to be mPua, I need a right gf and I think she one.
3) This does not mean I have stopped focusing on other girls
4) this call confirms attraction is mutual, she wants to go to bed with me
5) even @Chase gave a girl 3 months. Read this article https://www.girlschase.com/article/how-let-girl-go
Though he wont do it again. I think every men need to see it for himself.

I see myself being persistent and not chasing her.

 

[topcat]

@Skills and @topcat

1)this is a post for a special girl.
2) not everyone wants to be mPua, I need a right gf and I think she one.
3) This does not mean I have stopped focusing on other girls
4) this call confirms attraction is mutual, she wants to go to bed with me
5) even @Chase gave a girl 3 months. Read this article https://www.girlschase.com/article/how-let-girl-go
Though he wont do it again. I think every men need to see it for himself.

I see myself being persistent and not chasing her.

Then do what your heart desires. I don’t have any advice for you besides leave this girl alone and focus on better prospects.

 

[Skills]

Update guys: had a call with her.

It was a long call.

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

Then later something related to bed came.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.


I can visit her city next week it will be in transit only. Not making a special visit for her.

Say I will have 2-3 hours and shitty logistics. Is there any way I can get laid?

Should I just skip the vacation and plan a date with her. Probably laying her will ease my pain.

Like how do I make it clear we are having sex without having to tell her.

See the exact problem I have is she lives in a place with roommates so I can't barge in their place. It's all girls place.

And if I book a hotel and she changes her mind to not come or gives any resistance at last moment, what to do?

Don't pay in advance call places around the area find out the price and availability on particular day you plan to bang her... Don't explicit say you are going to bang.... Get her emotional and sexually charge indirectly...run a proper date, look my post on how to date, and if the lay is there just tell her you are staying in pre arrange motel or hotel and you got to check in, we call that plausible deniability... I hope you are not going 3 to 4 hours to a city for a girl and you are really going to be there for vacation.... Good luck

 

[Atlas IV]

In between the call I said we were just hanging out.

She got mad, like after kissing me you are saying we were hanging out. She saw it as a proper date.

So she said the person "I wanted to share the bed with" is saying we were just hanging out.

Man what exactly are you trying to achieve here? She's explicitly telling you that she wanted to have sex, and now you're friendzoning her, hiding your dick and pretending that you didn't want sex all along??

Feel kinda bad for this chick lol, she must be so bloody confused...

 

[Skills]

Man what exactly are you trying to achieve here? She's explicitly telling you that she wanted to have sex, and now you're friendzoning her, hiding your dick and pretending that you didn't want sex all along??

Feel kinda bad for this chick lol, she must be so bloody confused...

Actually i think it helped, he saying we were hanging out made her mad and say that... But i am personally confused myself about the whole thing... But emphap do what i tell you, find out the area with Google maps and making sure pull less than 10 minutes and tell her you are staying in there and your check in cut off about to expire to come with you real quick... Pay then... Just in case not there you don't waste the money... just plan in advance, but she told you pretty much she wants to fuck already...

 

[empath]

Don't pay in advance call places around the area find out the price and availability on particular day you plan to bang her... Don't explicit say you are going to bang.... Get her emotional and sexually charge indirectly...run a proper date, look my post on how to date, and if the lay is there just tell her you are staying in pre arrange motel or hotel and you got to check in, we call that plausible deniability... I hope you are not going 3 to 4 hours to a city for a girl and you are really going to be there for vacation.... Good luck

@Skills yes I am going for a vacation and her city will come in transit.

Yes I will follow your 3 date model.

My plan is to use drinking wine as an excuse to pull. That day is christmas eve and she wants to visit few places (serves as a date itself). She asked me to bring wine herself (in that particular state alcohol is banned).

So 1st question is when should I try to pull asap or after date?

2nd question is How to charge her emotionally?

I am thinking about creating a barrier about our future say maybe things will work or not and a us vs world barrier.

Because at least I need to do 2-3 hours of talking if date happens first and she ends up doing some random shit like not coming back to my place etc.

I want to lay her ASAP to not to let attraction expire or her finding another men.

I am thinking not to talk much on phone saying her I am busy so I don't end up saying or doing anything stupid to lose attraction.

Actually i think it helped, he saying we were hanging out made her mad and say that... But i am personally confused myself about the whole thing... But emphap do what i tell you, find out the area with Google maps and making sure pull less than 10 minutes and tell her you are staying in there and your check in cut off about to expire to come with you real quick... Pay then... Just in case not there you don't waste the money... just plan in advance, but she told you pretty much she wants to fuck already...

Man what exactly are you trying to achieve here? She's explicitly telling you that she wanted to have sex, and now you're friendzoning her, hiding your dick and pretending that you didn't want sex all along??

Feel kinda bad for this chick lol, she must be so bloody confused...

@Atlas IV I said it consciously to create a push Pull. I had given out too much interest.

So yeah it helped in cementing her feelings for me.

 

[Skills]

@Skills yes I am going for a vacation and her city will come in transit.

Yes I will follow your 3 date model.

My plan is to use drinking wine as an excuse to pull. That day is christmas eve and she wants to visit few places (serves as a date itself). She asked me to bring wine herself (in that particular state alcohol is banned).

So 1st question is when should I try to pull asap or after date?

2nd question is How to charge her emotionally?

I am thinking about creating a barrier about our future say maybe things will work or not and a us vs world barrier.

Because at least I need to do 2-3 hours of talking if date happens first and she ends up doing some random shit like not coming back to my place etc.

I want to lay her ASAP to not to let attraction expire or her finding another men.

I am thinking not to talk much on phone saying her I am busy so I don't end up saying or doing anything stupid to lose attraction.





@Atlas IV I said it consciously to create a push Pull. I had given out too much interest.

So yeah it helped in cementing her feelings for me.

You mean 3 bounce, no 3 dates.... After 1 hour and 30 minutes your odds may go down 3 hours on encounter overkill... I am confused, you said you had logistics issues... I was trying for you to avoid paying for a hotel if the pull not there but if you are on vacation I assume you already have a hotel???

 

[empath]

You mean 3 bounce, no 3 dates.... After 1 hour and 30 minutes your odds may go down 3 hours on encounter overkill... I am confused, you said you had logistics issues... I was trying for you to avoid paying for a hotel if the pull not there but if you are on vacation I assume you already have a hotel???

Yes 3 bounce.

Got it gotta do in 1 hour and 30 mins.

Already seed the pull by saying we will drink wine inside my friends house.

Though I don't have any friend, I will tell hee later that I am staying at a hotel because my friend bailed out.

Yes logistic issue as in she had extream time constrains.

Also, she has fallen in love somewhat.

Called me herself, I tried keeping it short but she said she wants to talk more and when I finally cut the call. She sent a sad emoji.

Strong chance I will not face LMR.

Just no need to do anything stupid for 5-6 days.

 

[TomInHo]

Bro... this girl likes you

Try not to overthink it.

Meetup with her, have fun and invite her to your hotel and sleep with her

Try not to obsess and the minutia details because here it doesn't really matter that much

You are not a virgin, you have fucked other girls before and you have the skills to fuck her too

Good luck and hope you two have a blast together

 

[empath]

Have booked the hotel. She will need to come inside for drinking wine.

Hope I don't get any LMR. Any ideas to avoid it or bust through it?

I don't think there will be any ASD and my feel is she is wating to be fucked.

 

[POB]

@empath

Read this for context on how to run this date.

 

[empath]

Thanks @POB @Skills @TomInHo @topcat and @Atlas IV

Here is the update

Couldn't run proper date because my train got delayed reached around 2:00 a.m. instead of 10:30.

We went to room directly it took me.

It was fucking tough to close the distance with her.

but I ended up making out with her and faced heavy LMR as I thought.

Every step was like a battle.

From kissing her lips to kissing her neck.

She did not wanted me to kiss her neck.

Then removing her top.

Finally touching her pussy.

She did not let take her pants off nor let me enter my hands inside her pants but kept sleeping with me in same room.

But she made back love to me by kissing me passionately.

I ended making her close to cumming by fingering and humping her.

But did not made her cum, she was begging me to.

I persisted for 3 hours-3.5 hours.

And I said it will happen in one way only by me putting my dick. ( Did not said direclty like I will put my dick but I said proper way)

The reason she gave me was she is out of break up and her ideals for marriage are shaken.

Its not easy for her.

I will extend my stay for one day because my vacation plans have changed.

And try to fuck her tonight as well.

But she will not let me hurry it I know.

Also, I am deep in Bf zone and she is not ready for a relationship and she has conflicted feelings.

But atleast she is out of my system now.

I can game other girls.

Any guidance?

I guess I was in too much hurry to fuck her that might have been problem and she needs more connection.

 

[empath]

I botched this one completely. On the 2nd day she had some plans with her friends.

But I being a kucknlehead I am.

I tried to ... Force kiss her on street.

She felt uncomfortable.

But I am happy, I realised she wanted a hook up not a bf.

I had given her too much without her much complinace.

Also, positive is I can get hotter girls I need better self control.

She is out from my system and next target is to lay girls better than her and have more self dicipline and self control.

 

[Atlas IV]

I botched this one completely.

Brah, we know...

But I am happy, I realised she wanted a hook up not a bf.

Nah, sorry man but this is cope. There is absolutely a path in which you could've turned her into a GF if you'd bedded her much sooner.

If you want to get better at this PUA thing, you need to admit when you fucked up so that you can reflect and grow. Never default to blaming it on the girl.

She is out from my system and next target is to lay girls better than her and have more self dicipline and self control.

It's not discipline that you need, you just need to move faster and avoid the provider/BF frame until there's dick in pussy.

Also, it seems like you got in your head too much and gave off confusing signals. Like, you told her over the phone that you just wanted to be friends, but then you tried to "force kissed" her on the street? I'm guessing that made her feel totally disoriented, like she didn't really know you anymore.

Next time, make sure you use a BF disqualifier, escalate quickly, and have the logistics sorted.

 

[Skills]

I botched this one completely. On the 2nd day she had some plans with her friends.

But I being a kucknlehead I am.

I tried to ... Force kiss her on street.

She felt uncomfortable.

But I am happy, I realised she wanted a hook up not a bf.

I had given her too much without her much complinace.

Also, positive is I can get hotter girls I need better self control.

She is out from my system and next target is to lay girls better than her and have more self dicipline and self control.

you ask for advice, people gave you advice and showed sample, you did your own thing, then you post the whole thing did not work... this is what i call freestyle.....

 

[empath]

you ask for advice, people gave you advice and showed sample, you did your own thing, then you post the whole thing did not work... this is what i call freestyle.....

The situation did not allowed. I tried my best and I have learnt my lesson.

Focus on better prospects.

Keep improving skills.

Lay high standard girls with lover frame to not to get smitten.

 

[Spyce D]

Also, it seems like you got in your head too much and gave off confusing signals.

Fuck ! This applies to me too .

Doing everything but hesitating on the kill .