How to go about a neighbor?

[razir110]

Hi lads, so I just moved into a new place and there is this super cute, super sweet girl who lives, well, literally the door next to mine.

We met first yesterday, I was standing outside waiting for my new flatmates and she arrived at the building entrance and actually she was the one to smile and stared talking to me. We spoke for a few moments and she left. Today I moved in with all my stuff and saw her again, she was super friendly and sweet, I complemented her at her dress to add some non-platonic vibe into this, anyways then we parted ways.

So how to play this one? Important info: my flatmates told me she is very friendly towards everyone, so our interactions don't necessarily mean she is into me. She is also younger than me, I am 35 she is 25ish.
She is someone who I will see often, in my experience if I don't move in romantically with people I see on a regular basis, the conversations eventually become awkward as we run out of stuff to talk about in these short interactions. Should I just ask her out? Or should I take it slower since I will be seeing her often?

 

[PalmaSailor]

Just doorstep her, knock on the door and ask for some milk/ tea/ coffee - you haven’t been shopping yet etc… and invite her to see the place and escalate as normal

 

[Rakkum]

Just doorstep her, knock on the door and ask for some milk/ tea/ coffee - you haven’t been shopping yet etc… and invite her to see the place and escalate as normal

I don't want to completely derail the thread, just a short detour, though: Is asking some milk or sugar from neighbour really a thing in some parts of the world? I've never done it, never in my life has a neighbour asked for anything like that. (Except for two brand new neighbour girls who didn't know how to operate their washing machine... they weren't hot tho... ok, I digress).

Should I just ask her out? Or should I take it slower since I will be seeing her often?

Just ask her out in a decently calibrated manner. The sooner the better. Do you have anything significant to lose here? No. And It will get harder for you pull the trigger and your frame "friendly neighbor" will solidify in her mind.

 

[razir110]

Thanks for the advice

 

[Chad Tyrone]

Hi lads, so I just moved into a new place and there is this super cute, super sweet girl who lives, well, literally the door next to mine.

We met first yesterday, I was standing outside waiting for my new flatmates and she arrived at the building entrance and actually she was the one to smile and stared talking to me. We spoke for a few moments and she left. Today I moved in with all my stuff and saw her again, she was super friendly and sweet, I complemented her at her dress to add some non-platonic vibe into this, anyways then we parted ways.

So how to play this one? Important info: my flatmates told me she is very friendly towards everyone, so our interactions don't necessarily mean she is into me. She is also younger than me, I am 35 she is 25ish.
She is someone who I will see often, in my experience if I don't move in romantically with people I see on a regular basis, the conversations eventually become awkward as we run out of stuff to talk about in these short interactions. Should I just ask her out? Or should I take it slower since I will be seeing her often?

What's standing in your way to ask her out Now.Now is all we have lol.No tomorrow,no nothing.I don't believe there's such a thing as moving slower just cause a girl is close(hey not to call your out on your question).IME i have lost great leads just cause I said we were in the same class I'll keep things slow.Lost every single lead of them all .

But who am I ,I decided to be strategically flexible and go with what may work.Who knew a different strategy would have been better without testing it out .And here I am grateful for the change I implemented.I pushed for the close every single time,same day laid some of most leads I was working on lost some* shrug*.It didn't matter to me if she sat beside me during lessons.I said I'll get her .

Keeping your place slower will fuck up the interaction.The more you talk to each other without keeping your eyes on the ball,the more attraction plummets.You only got NOW buddy.

However,I'd rather keep my mouth shut with the flatmates.Discretion is everything.I lost a girl cause I went bragging to my friends that she was attracted to me.And word goes round brother I tell you.While I met her one day she told me she had heard rumours about the two of us and she said she no longer needed anything to do with me.I tried saving the interaction but it was Done.Nothing saved it at the moment yet I was 4 years more than her age.Wished her a good night and walked away.Don't talk about it to ur flatmates I'd rather be casual around the girl when they are around and better seek out a hotel room to close just to keep things on the low.

Now is all you've got.
Discretion is all you need
Making her orgasm is all she wants from you lol.
~ ChadTyrone