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empath

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empath

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can’t edit so post my queries here.

here I seduced a girl, from a close friend group.

they live in same building, but i live in a different one.

I think I must have started a bit of drama, set wrong frames a bit, as well give some privileged information to a girl I should have not.


here, are a bit if dynamics, over all a good girl but lacks social finnese and is goody two shoes so she got misunderstood in the group and gets poked fun at.

I as I was hooking up with her, I liked her and ended up revealing and discussing some friend circle dynamics with her. Which led to hook up.

now, she was not able to guess the perceptions others have on her sexuality, thinking she is promiscuous while she had of herself.

I ended up slightly revealing it, she feels hurt how can her friends think about her like this while she has been good to them.


also, our affair is secret from my friends.

only, one guy knew I was trying on her, but I have decided not to tell him that I have hooked up with her.

cause I promised I will never kiss and tell to her.

eventually others will get an understading if it

because of our behaviour, because there is romantic attraction and also she will demand a relationship with me soon.

Now, we hooked up second time and I ended up cuming in her.

(we were high and doing it raw brought her a pill, and the session went on for an hour of so)

(she did got tense, it was first time someone cummed in her)

she was affectionate after first hook up but now she is more.

now, this these negative feeling as growing in her cause of group as others will judge us if our relationship is known and I dont make her my gf later.

and I can’t tell my friends so they wont stop gossiping about us and checking our status.

also, one of my friend misunderstood her friendliness for attraction and she had a scene with one more guy in that buidling.

now I dont know how to handle this.

i want to keep it as fb situation mostly.

but with some lovey dove stuff or one side monogamy but I am sure she dont make it wife list as of now.
 
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