Hi guys, need some quick advice. Currently in Morroco.
Yesterday I went out with a girl i approached a few days ago.
A cute girl with a very strong personality in the sence of wanting to control
The guy so she get’s stuff as she want. She does this through a ”bored look”.
When I do/tell/ask/act in certain ways and she doesnt like it she act ”bored” and
And stop talking to me as in punishing me. The thing is that she does it VERY OFTEN
and she might be a real control freak lol because she does it for very small things during the interaction.
So to handle this i tried two things;
First - I didnr notice it and kept talking and didnt change my behaviour.
This worked but sometimes she really kept her ”bored/sad” face and didnt talk back with me for a while so I had to tell her something about it.
Second - when she told me to tell her about somethiing and I teased her ” why would I” she went in for a long silence. So i kept talking and then i tried the approach of saying: if you’re really so sad look me into my eyes without smiling. She looked into my eyes and held it for a while and then she smiled and I got her out of it.
Any tips on effective ways to handle this kind of ”bored look/silence” with a girl that does it ALOT?
Yesterday I went out with a girl i approached a few days ago.
A cute girl with a very strong personality in the sence of wanting to control
The guy so she get’s stuff as she want. She does this through a ”bored look”.
When I do/tell/ask/act in certain ways and she doesnt like it she act ”bored” and
And stop talking to me as in punishing me. The thing is that she does it VERY OFTEN
and she might be a real control freak lol because she does it for very small things during the interaction.
So to handle this i tried two things;
First - I didnr notice it and kept talking and didnt change my behaviour.
This worked but sometimes she really kept her ”bored/sad” face and didnt talk back with me for a while so I had to tell her something about it.
Second - when she told me to tell her about somethiing and I teased her ” why would I” she went in for a long silence. So i kept talking and then i tried the approach of saying: if you’re really so sad look me into my eyes without smiling. She looked into my eyes and held it for a while and then she smiled and I got her out of it.
Any tips on effective ways to handle this kind of ”bored look/silence” with a girl that does it ALOT?
