How to have a intimidating vibe?

[Searcher]

I have run into situations where people seems to take an opportunity to take digs at me in social settings.
Now these are unprovoked and don’t know if its my fundamentals which are making me come across like this.

I have got the feedback that if smiling I look like an easy target which is amplified by the babyface of mine.
Now to cultivate an intimidating vibe I tried going emotioness but it gives the vibe that I am depressed.

I don’t think I can go with the friendly with everyone vibe (like chris evans and will smith) because it will make me look weaker.

So how do I cultivate the Cool and unattainable guy vibe (like RDJ or Putin for example)?

 

[Searcher]

Any thoughts on this?

 

[Fuck This]

You need to do one of these three things
1) Have the mindset that the person demeaning you is unworthy of your attention and inconsequential to your mood.
2) Agree and amplify the dig to make it sound ridiculous.
3) Freeze out the person in the group by continuing your conversation with the others as if the digger are not there and are on mute on a zoom call .