- Joined
- Nov 7, 2019
- Messages
- 658
TLDR Are some girls just boring & not a good fit or can you always improve for a over 50% date to lay ratio?
Hey so I went on 2 different 1st dates Thursday & Friday from D.G cold approach.
The first girl was quite hard to read and didn’t open up. She is a teacher very focused on work and she arrived late and still in office clothes lol.
Writing that out makes me think she just isn’t that into me. I’m pretty good on dates (sleep with 40-50%) so is this one to just write off or can I try and analyse certain parts to know where I can improve?
Whenever I tried to deep dive I got answers like “I don’t really know” “I’m just a normal girl” etc & the most I got was her saying “you’re so posh” & “you’re good at reading people” when I nailed a cold read.
In the end it was more nice chit-chat with laughs shared on date experiences and me teasing her “teacher cardigan”. I also tried to seed in a date for Sunday that came across too keen.
No compliment on my outfit (which was killer if I say so myself) or how I smelled which not tooting my own trumpet was also on point. I’ve got this feedback from other dates not basing of my own ego.
The 2nd date was a lot better & the girl thanked me for taking her out after & seems down for a 2nd date while the first one ignored my last msg lol.
Can I just put it down to the game? Is over 50% realistic date to lay ratio to aim for?
Hey so I went on 2 different 1st dates Thursday & Friday from D.G cold approach.
The first girl was quite hard to read and didn’t open up. She is a teacher very focused on work and she arrived late and still in office clothes lol.
Writing that out makes me think she just isn’t that into me. I’m pretty good on dates (sleep with 40-50%) so is this one to just write off or can I try and analyse certain parts to know where I can improve?
Whenever I tried to deep dive I got answers like “I don’t really know” “I’m just a normal girl” etc & the most I got was her saying “you’re so posh” & “you’re good at reading people” when I nailed a cold read.
In the end it was more nice chit-chat with laughs shared on date experiences and me teasing her “teacher cardigan”. I also tried to seed in a date for Sunday that came across too keen.
No compliment on my outfit (which was killer if I say so myself) or how I smelled which not tooting my own trumpet was also on point. I’ve got this feedback from other dates not basing of my own ego.
The 2nd date was a lot better & the girl thanked me for taking her out after & seems down for a 2nd date while the first one ignored my last msg lol.
Can I just put it down to the game? Is over 50% realistic date to lay ratio to aim for?
