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How To Make Her More Comfortable With You

MrCharming

Space Monkey
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Hello Gentlemen,

Today we are going to talk about Building Comfort - Why That's Important, and How To Do It

Before a Woman sleeps with you - she needs to be Comfortable with the Idea of Sleeping with you First, with her EMOTIONS

Personally, I'm not a very Emotional Person. Either I'm Hungry Happy or Horny... that's my Range
I would like to be more Emotional... but I don't know how to do that - and if I can Teach myself that Skill

Women on the Other hand... are completely different Creatures. They operate solely based on their Emotions. This is why you can have a Conversation with a Woman about ANYTHING because it's about the Emotions that you elicit from her. This is why negging works (if that's your Style... DEFINITELY should try it if you're Too Much of a Nice Guy/Provider) this is why you tell a Woman to come over to your place to play pool (something Fun) as opposed to coming over to have sex (something she then has to logically object to)
Both of them have the SAME EXACT MEANIING! Trust Me - if she's coming over to play pool, she couldn't care any less about playing pool

But Emotionally - they mean completely different things

How Do You Get Her More Comfortable Sleeping With You?

*Fundamentals
*Physical Escalation
*Cater To Her Emotions
*It's All About Her

*FUNDAMENTALS

Fundamentals makes everything easier... Everything. From the way you feel about yourself, because you KNOW that you're a Sexy Man... to her Initial Attraction for you, to how Comfortable she feels Chasing You... and if your Fundamentals are down pat, she WILL Chase you. She'll tell you that she likes your Jacket, or your Smile, or your Hairstyle... if Properly Taken Care Of
So make sure you Groom Yourself. Walk, Talk, React Slow. Hold Piercing Eye-Contact. Eat Healthy and Exercise. Meditate to make sure your Inner Game is Peaceful and Relaxed
It All Matters

*PHYSICAL ESCALATION

The Guy who just met a Girl and gives her a Hug... or a Kiss on the Cheek, or now they're Holding Hands
That Guy is a Smooth Operator. The One who she decides "Woah this is Moving so Fast - it's Exciting!"
Sometimes he moves too fast and comes across as maybe a little pushy - but the happens to the best of us
Better for her to remember you as the Guy who tried to get in her Pants TOO FAST, than the Guy who didn't Try at all
cause that Guy isn't even Remembered

The Faster You Touch Her, the More Comfortable she Feels around you - the Easier it is to Relate to you as a Lover as opposed to Provider or Friend... Because if you are Speaking To a Woman - she HAS to put you somewhere... might as well be the LOVER

Touch Her Shoulders, Hold Her Hands, Spin Her Around, Kiss Her Cheeks, Her Neck, Her Hips, Play With Her Hair, Smell Her - DO SOMETHING that let's her know that you are a Lover.... and she will be WAYYY more Comfortable being in your presence

*CATER TO HER EMOTIONS

If you're having a Conversation with her - and you feel like it's too much on the logical side (so what's your name - where you from) throw in something that will affect her Emotions. Tell that you Love Her, than give her a Kiss. Tell her that you're going to Marry her, or Make Her Your Girlfriend
She won't tak it completely serious being that you two just met - but the spike in her Emotions means you are Speaking her Language
On the Other Hand - you can tell her that you Hate her, that she Reminds you of your Annoying Little Sister. Tell her that you usually don't like Blonde Girls... but something about her stands out
More Powerful Than Any of Those is the Emotion of Lust - Tell her how Sexy Her Legs are and every time you Check her out - she turns you on
Tell just how damn beautiful her Hair Smells, and that you can't wait to pull it
Tell her that she's a Naughty, Naughty little girl and she deserves a Spanking
Then go back to normal conversation
You Can Make Her Feel Negative, You Can Make Her Feel Positive, You Can Make Her Feel Horny... Just Don't Make Her Feel Bored

*IT'S ALL ABOUT HER

You should be Listening way more than you are Speaking. The Reason Being - is because you want to see what She Connects with - and then Connect with her on that Level. Meet her where she's at. One Question that I like asking is

"Tell me 2 things about you that I don't already know... other than the fact that you like doing bad things"
Or something along those lines

It gets girls Thinking, it gets Girls Investing, it gets Girls Qualifying

She Has to Feel like you like Her for Her... not just her Pussy
And then that's when she Gives you her Pussy ;)

MrCharming... Out
 

Ree

Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Noticed a lot of men here..are not empirical....if u give them advice like negging ...they automatically go like "nuh..i wont neg,i havent seen a gc article on doing it"...?.or.."why should i take ur advice..ur just a space monkey"...its like unless there is a post saying do this and this,they wont take advice that hasnt been rubber stamped and gc approved.....i personally like to lean towards the dark side of seduction....i have found that asshole game works better with some girls...anyway..great post
 

MrCharming

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Ree

Thanks for replying! Yor insight is useful

The Dark Side is certainly more Fun! I feel like so many guys are so "Nice" that even a man whose just walking down the street is categorized as "Nice" by default... and so when a Guy can let her know
"I'm not sure if I like your Hair" or "Girls like you - are sooo annoying!" or "ewww you Smell Bad!"

it triggers something in her that lets her know that

1) You are used to having Women around you - and don't need to "Try" to make her like you - only a Guy who isn't afraid of losing the Girl... can actually get the Girl

2) Most Girls don't actually FEEL all that pretty... so when you tell her that she's cute, she might Believe you... but then again she might just take the Emotional Validation and run off with it - but most Girls don't think they're all that so when you're not all over her, it's more Realistic - she doesn't think she's sooo Freaking Hot! She thinks she's just another Girl... (Which is why when you walk up to a Woman with unshakable Confidence - she feels Special to be with such a Confident Man.. most men aren't)

3) When you tell a Girl that you don't like "Girls Who Play Hard To Get" or "Girls who aren't Naughty" she then realizes that you have Options, which in a sense is Pre-Selection and Non-Neediness

4) it gives them more of a Range in Emotions. So you start off with a Positive
"Hello - you were walking by, and I noticed you, so I wanted to say hi... I'm Charming"
And then she Smiles and gets her Pussy Wet just a little bit from your Boldness, but then when you tell her
"You're a Bad Girl! I can tell" and she tries to play the innocent card "no, I'm actually very Nice"
you get to stop giving her Emotional Validation by telling her you
"like nice girls, they're cute and all... but they're not attractive. Only people who go after what they want are Attractive - and that's why Bad Girls are attractive"
Now it Ranges her Emotions because you made her feel Good, then you disqualified her, and she wants to feel good again
So she chases you Harder for that Emotional High

At least that's what I've gathered from Negging Girls... or Teasing Them - same thing. GC has an Article or two on Teasing... and their Articles are very Useful to Study. Once you know Sbsconsciously what to do - your Body then Consciously knows what to do. And that's why I like to post on these Boards is simply becase I enjoy Adding Value to other's lives. I look at this as if it's a Community - an online Social Circle
And this is what I wish someone had told me when I was at an earlier phase of GAME

"Ranking Up" in the Boards doesn't matter much to me at all - as long as I am able to GIVE VALUE - then that's fine

You don't have to know me - I'm Comfortable where I'm at

MrCharming... Out
 
a good date brings a smile to your lips... and hers

007

Space Monkey
space monkey
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Hey MrC.

After a few posts of Yours I fell in love with Your open-mindedness, Your thinking patterns and the way You write. I decided to go through all of Your posts as I sensed value and there was tons of value. Thank You my friend! I have learned a lot and I really, really appreciate that You give out so much value to the world.

I'm currently on my newly started path of meditation as one of the chapters of my Becoming. As you taught me a lot I feel giving back a bit is the least I can do.

I have read that You 'struggle' with Your EGO a bit... Definitions of EGO are countless and I believe that You don't really have problems in the sense of being Egotistical and Selfish (completely contrary actually) but here is a video from the guy that has been a big help on my path,

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bsyplaii9p4 has a part 2 as well.... I trust that You have an open-enough mind for this ;)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqLIXz0k_qM

And a bit on humbleness --> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQewAOgoxCE (at least some part of this is relevant.. forgive me if I'm wrong, I have watched this more than a week ago)

Thank You again and I hope our paths will cross at some point. :)

Peace and Love,
007
 
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