How to manage mutiple girlfriends without loosing my mind...

[pollux]

If you do it right, each week you may have many new contacts to callback, and several dates to plan with them or your regular girlfriends.

Tracing all this things to do/remember (that is women management) is annoying.

Do a favor to your brain and check this out:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G4-OdNJv3oU
http://www.playerstoolkit.com

This new app is considerably pleasant and useful for this purpose.

You can import your phone contacts into this application (like right after you saved her number in the standard contacts app).
You can also backup and export the data, and transfer it to another android phone, or store it on your laptop (no data loss).
If you buy it on Google Play, don't forget you can always get a refund during a limited time (2 hours i think).

You what do you use?

 

[lostnumber]

I've found that two relationships is the most I can possibly maintain. Even with only 1 or 2 I struggle to keep straight who traveled where and whose parents divorced when if I'm actively going on additional dates, as I have a very poor memory.

I've been intending to start keeping date notes for a while, but I never have time. I'll take a look at this

 

[Richard]

Differentiate between girlfriends and FBs/FWBs.

A "girlfriend" is somebody you care about and so you approach texting/meeting up/mentalities with a different stance than a FB. This requires more energy and commitment/devotion and, so, I find that having 2 "girlfriends" is optimal.

Beyond that you can have a crazy number of fuckbuddies or friends-with-benefits because it's minimal texting aside from the occasional booty call.

-Richard

 

[pollux]

Girlfriend, FB, lover, flirt... it's a question of vocabulary.

This app makes the distinction according to the deep state of the relationship (called "dating status"):
1) new : you just got her number and are doing text/phone game
2) flake: she did not reply anymore (for archive)
3) dating: after first date
4) lover: after first sex
5) on hold: to be continued but not available now
6) ended: relationship is over (for archive)
7) deserted: you gave up (for archive)

Meaning the girls you had sex with should be in state "lover", "on hold" or "ended".