How to move fast with women with coming off sex hungry?

[Ex Procastinator]

This is something I a get a feeling women are getting from me when I try to move fast. This could be due to my nature I usually slow and take my time with things which are trivial e.g. When I'm relaxing shopping eating etc. (Congruence issue)

Just wondering how everyone try's to move fast and avoid this

I'm assuming another factor which would be affecting me is not setting the strong sexual expectation and framing the relationship wrong.