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How to move forward with this girl?

MichaelGScott

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Long story short. Met a girl at the club. Had to text her a couple of times before getting a response, but my persistence paid off and I was able to get her out on the first date. She actually didn't initially reply to my date request, until the next day. She apologized saying she'd left her phone at home, to which I replied, "Ah, bummer :(" (got that reply from an article on here about how to deal with tension girls create). It worked, as she wanted to know what I was doing the next day, and said she'd had free movie tickets. We talked in the parking lot after the movies, but I didn't escalate. Second date, we went out to eat, and towards the end of the date, I went for the kiss, but she rejected it, saying I'd have to wait. I didn't escalate enough on the second nor did I employ enough kino, so I wasn't surprised she wasn't receptive to the kiss (I know I should have moved quicker). She flaked on the third date attempt (didn't respond to my text about logistics even though she'd previously agreed to meet up with me), and since I've ceased communication. It's been about 3 weeks since we've last spoken. How should I continue? I've got other girls lined up as well, but I like her personality. Just if 1 million dollars depended on advice on how to get her back out on another date, what advice would you give?
 
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Cro-Magnon Man
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Move on not forward. She gave you her answer.

The strongest message you can deliver is that you have other better options.
 
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