So i met this chick, and shes become super clingy, constantly texting and calling me, i thought i liked her at first but now im REALLY unsure, i am physically attracted to her but the more i have got to know her the less im attracted to her personality, the problem is she REALLY likes me, and want's to meet me again next week. I feel likes shes very emotionally involved in me and would be devastated if i said i didn't want to see her again, on facebook she keeps posting quotes about the magic when you meet somebody new etc reffering to me like shes super happy she found me, ahhh
Bass your age and the girl's age would help. Sounds like you are HS age. Girls that age are in love with being in love and having a relationship. Your options are:
Cut contact and ignore her (nuclear option)
Friendzone her
Let her down gently (her reaction)
Be straight with her that you are not looking for a relationship, and you don't want a bf-gf relationship with any girl. You have a mission in life and a woman doesn't fit in it right now.
Cut contact and ignore her (nuclear option)
Friendzone her
Let her down gently (her reaction)
Be straight with her that you are not looking for a relationship, and you don't want a bf-gf relationship with any girl. You have a mission in life and a woman doesn't fit in it right now.