How to not give a sh*t

[Thinkingenigma]

I've been learning game for a while now and I've learned how useful it can be in so many different areas of life, not just with girls. I've gone from being an unmotivated, socially awkward nerd to a socially savvy business person. I'm a photojournalist for the top two publications in my city, and I own a production company that has an exclusive contract with a medium-sized record label in TN. I've done all this, and I haven't even graduated from college yet. I'm hardly a Casanova, but I do much better with the fairer sex than I used to. I've learned how to use online game effectively, and gotten laid multiple times from that alone. My day game needs work, but I'm still making progress there.

My problem is that I seem to be hitting a plateau. My progress is slowing. The worst part about it is that I know exactly what my problem is. It's that I care too much. I haven't freed myself from outcome independence, and I care too much about what other people will think of me to do what I need to do in order to be more successful in my business, social, and romantic relationships. I recognize this, but I don't know what more I can do to purge that from my system. It's a gentle curse that is keeping me from reaching my full potential.

Any help would be appreciated.

 

[Mr. oblivious]

wait you need help with how not to give a shit or how to get out of the plateau you have reached ?

If its about the plateau all my advice would be experiment more set yourself harder challenges probably work on your weaknesses a bit more
like you said your day game is not as strong so work on that area and it might give you idea's or help improve other aspects of your game as well

 

[Thinkingenigma]

wait you need help with how not to give a shit or how to get out of the plateau you have reached ?

If its about the plateau all my advice would be experiment more set yourself harder challenges probably work on your weaknesses a bit more
like you said your day game is not as strong so work on that area and it might give you idea's or help improve other aspects of your game as well

I'm reaching the plateau because I care too much about how people are going to be affected by my decisions, even if they aren't my close friends or family. That's really the crux of the problem. My analytical and empathetic nature is keeping me from being decisive when I need to.