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There are multiple articles on girlschase focused on overcoming approach anxiety.
Overcoming Approach Anxiety
How to Demolish Approach Anxiety Forever
How to Deal with Approach Anxiety A Practical Guide
How to Develop Approach Addiction (and Destroy Approach Anxiety Forever)
Those are all different takes on approach anxiety written by different authors I believe,but anyone can work.
I still struggle to get myself to approach but I think the biggest fight is just leaving your house. Cuz once you're outside the house it's a whole lot easier to do it. Now all you gotta do is find a girl to approach. Make sure you leave your headphones at home and dont listen to music because that will distract you and put you in a different world and you will not want to take your headphones off to approach girls. Before you decide to approach go workout at the gym. That will help fill your body with endorphins and dopamine to make you feel good and less nervous. When you see a girl you want to approach don't think about what you're gonna say. Just walk up to her and use a direct opener. Say excuse me or hi I saw you standing,walking and I thought you were cute/pretty and I wanted to introduce myself i'm(insert name). Then she replies either with her name or you can ask for it. When you say all of this say it like you really believe it and feel it. Don't worry about
what you're gonna say because you just need to learn how it feels to approach a girl. Rejection doesnt matter at this point. You're just starting out so you want to take small steps and it starts with saying hi. And also rejection doesn't feel as bad as you think. When a girl denies you or rejects you otherwise you feel good because you feel like a stronger man who just took it like a champ. You don't really feel like a loser who got destroyed unless you're very dramatic. There are lots of different openers you can use listed from the site. Hope this helps.
Overcoming Approach Anxiety
How to Demolish Approach Anxiety Forever
How to Deal with Approach Anxiety A Practical Guide
How to Develop Approach Addiction (and Destroy Approach Anxiety Forever)
Those are all different takes on approach anxiety written by different authors I believe,but anyone can work.
I still struggle to get myself to approach but I think the biggest fight is just leaving your house. Cuz once you're outside the house it's a whole lot easier to do it. Now all you gotta do is find a girl to approach. Make sure you leave your headphones at home and dont listen to music because that will distract you and put you in a different world and you will not want to take your headphones off to approach girls. Before you decide to approach go workout at the gym. That will help fill your body with endorphins and dopamine to make you feel good and less nervous. When you see a girl you want to approach don't think about what you're gonna say. Just walk up to her and use a direct opener. Say excuse me or hi I saw you standing,walking and I thought you were cute/pretty and I wanted to introduce myself i'm(insert name). Then she replies either with her name or you can ask for it. When you say all of this say it like you really believe it and feel it. Don't worry about
what you're gonna say because you just need to learn how it feels to approach a girl. Rejection doesnt matter at this point. You're just starting out so you want to take small steps and it starts with saying hi. And also rejection doesn't feel as bad as you think. When a girl denies you or rejects you otherwise you feel good because you feel like a stronger man who just took it like a champ. You don't really feel like a loser who got destroyed unless you're very dramatic. There are lots of different openers you can use listed from the site. Hope this helps.
