how to phrase "the talk" with my roommate

[foggy]

my female roommate is a good friend of mine.

when I'm out in public with her during the day, i drown in approach invitations.

i really want to take advantage of this, ya dig?

she tells me stories about how she gets approached in the middle of the daytime. but she doesn't know about my daygame addiction, although I did tell her about how I met a girl in transit and got her number once

how should i bring up the fact that i wanna approach girls while im with her? what should i say? or am i crazywild for even thinking this

 

[Mr.Rob]

how should i bring up the fact that i wanna approach girls while im with her? what should i say? or am i crazywild for even thinking this

Hey Songbird,

I don't think there's any reason to bring up the subject of pickup with her. Pickup is generally a weird thing that you really shouldn't talk about with people that aren't already aware or knowledgeable of pickup material, its just kind of a dumb thing to be into (general society thinks pickup or approaching girls as spam approaching cheesy schticks).

Instead the next time your with her and you get an approach invitation from a cute girl passing you by just say "hey hold on just a sec, I'll be right back" and then go approach the girl you want to talk to, chat with her for a a few minutes and then go link up with your friend and be nonchalant. Your friend will probably inquire about what you just did (and will likely be impressed and may even respect you more) and you'll just say "yeah something about brunettes with glasses just melts my heart, I just couldn't let her walk in and out of my life that quick." And then just go about your day with her.

You want to come off as a natural and that you don't actively spend mountains of time thinking about how to approach women you just see a girl and inspiration hits. When people I'm with ask me about my approach habits I used to say "You know as a man I feel if I see a beautiful women walk by that makes my dick hard and I feel inspired by I feel its my duty as a man to go tell her whats on my mind and see if we don't get along well." Boom can't argue with that. Now your just this ballsy dude that goes after what he feels inspired by in life, how can you hate on that?

-Rob