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When I read the news, it seems to be harassment/rape charge every year.
(Google (Your city) police department news)))
And I thought “How can I prevent this?”
I researched articles on Girlschase, police reports, and the state law.
And I came up with a plan.
I divided pickup into 3 stages:
- Beginning stage (peaceful): Approaching, flirting, getting investment, getting number, but before first touch
- Mid stage (mild): Date/instant date/between the first touch and the first kiss/invite her home
- Final stage (perilous): After she got to your place but before sex
The plan in action:
1. At a coffee shop, I talked with a chick with 5 tattoos, deep voice, and was a feminist. I thought to myself, “Ok, too much risk factors. I’ll just converse, getting investment but not moving to mid stage.” And continue chatting, but I screened her out
2. At a beach, I talked with a normal attractive girl. So I just run the process as normal
3. At a coffee shop, I was talking with a girl until I found out she was in high school. I thought, “Ok, she is underage, so no touching, but friendly conversation,” and basically screening her out.
Basically, heavily screening girl at the beginning stage.
What is the worst case scenario at the beginning stage:
- On street: Girl screaming
- Mall, nightclub: Being kicked out of venue
- Beach: Girl calling the lifeguard
I’m willing to accept these worst case scenarios. Why?
Because it broadens my dating pool. I met lone girls, girls in groups, guys, nice girls, bitches, etc.
When I read the police reports, every case occurred when the guy become desperate.
I don’t think I’m beyond this. Thus meeting everyone at the beginning stage has 2 benefits:
- Prevent desperation: It’s very easy to get desperate on a girl if that girl is the only girl I meet in a night
- Understanding people: Speaking from experience, I have a feel of people by interacting with them for just 5 minutes. You don’t need to listen to people for years to understand them.
I call the beginning stage peaceful, because failure feels bad, but that’s it. The final stage is perilous because there is a legal consequence to it.
Thus, the funnel is very large at the beginning stage, but narrow at the mid stage.
I want dating success, but with the current anti-pickup climate, this is what I thought of.
(Google (Your city) police department news)))
And I thought “How can I prevent this?”
I researched articles on Girlschase, police reports, and the state law.
And I came up with a plan.
I divided pickup into 3 stages:
- Beginning stage (peaceful): Approaching, flirting, getting investment, getting number, but before first touch
- Mid stage (mild): Date/instant date/between the first touch and the first kiss/invite her home
- Final stage (perilous): After she got to your place but before sex
The plan in action:
1. At a coffee shop, I talked with a chick with 5 tattoos, deep voice, and was a feminist. I thought to myself, “Ok, too much risk factors. I’ll just converse, getting investment but not moving to mid stage.” And continue chatting, but I screened her out
2. At a beach, I talked with a normal attractive girl. So I just run the process as normal
3. At a coffee shop, I was talking with a girl until I found out she was in high school. I thought, “Ok, she is underage, so no touching, but friendly conversation,” and basically screening her out.
Basically, heavily screening girl at the beginning stage.
What is the worst case scenario at the beginning stage:
- On street: Girl screaming
- Mall, nightclub: Being kicked out of venue
- Beach: Girl calling the lifeguard
I’m willing to accept these worst case scenarios. Why?
Because it broadens my dating pool. I met lone girls, girls in groups, guys, nice girls, bitches, etc.
When I read the police reports, every case occurred when the guy become desperate.
I don’t think I’m beyond this. Thus meeting everyone at the beginning stage has 2 benefits:
- Prevent desperation: It’s very easy to get desperate on a girl if that girl is the only girl I meet in a night
- Understanding people: Speaking from experience, I have a feel of people by interacting with them for just 5 minutes. You don’t need to listen to people for years to understand them.
I call the beginning stage peaceful, because failure feels bad, but that’s it. The final stage is perilous because there is a legal consequence to it.
Thus, the funnel is very large at the beginning stage, but narrow at the mid stage.
I want dating success, but with the current anti-pickup climate, this is what I thought of.
