How to proceed

[Raqimus]

Hey guys so i met this asian chick on saturday at a friends birthday party, hit it off pretty well, i was kinda dancing with all the girls flirting the regular. So i grab her number before i leave and i shoot her an icebreaker like 40 minutes latr taking a cue from what someone else posted about meeting a girl at night.
Me: Heres my # -Raqimus
Her: Got it!
So two days later i decided to hit her up (yesterday)
Me: Hey Akane wassup! How'd your night time turn out after i left the party?
Her: Heyy! Well I went back home kinda early too. It was one of the best nights of my life (heart +thumbs up emoticon)
Me:Oh because you met me hahaha that's good tho, whatve you got planned for this week
Her:I'm going to Salem on Friday and have a sushi partyish thingy on Saturday
Me:Ah Damn i wanted to see if you were down for this party i might know of Saturday
Her: Aww what kinda party is that???
Her: Cuz the sushi thingy finishes at 9pm
Me: A house party! Once i get the details I'll check it out and let you know
Her: Thanks!

Heres the kicker, there is no party i just said it to seem busy and was gonna use this to get her out, now this isnt my normal way of doing things, I'm this because my best friend suggested trying it this way and since I'm down to try anything for the experience and I'm not too attracted to this girl (asians in general really I just need to start fucking) I said sure why not. Saturday I was gonna send something along the lines of.
"Hmm... how about isntead we just hangout at yours after party since mines not guaranteed" or something along those lines. What would you guys recommend i say because hanging out at my place isnt an option. I was also thinking about just inviting her out after saying the party is busted or whatever and just grabbing a hot chocolate or something and follow the process from there like building more comfort. So I'm not sure if i should just recommend hanging out at hers or grabbing a beverage diving from there and following my process then try to get back to hers. What do you guys think?

p.s
Sorry if its hard to follow, my thinking is a bit erratic

 

[fsc]

Trying to suggest hanging out at her place may be a bit early and a bit too much of a commitment for her. Even if you two "hit it off pretty well" last Saturday, she could be feeling different about you this Saturday. Her emotions generally won't be a pause-play button, so there's a good chance that she'd be like "WTF, this guy wants to come over already?", especially if what you provided is the only text exchange you've had with her since Saturday. Even if there's a chance that she still has good feelings for you and be excited to have you over on Saturday, I'd still go with a safer approach of getting her out somewhere local and simple, then work the magic from there. Another reason why you want to avoid trying to hang out at her place straight up is her situation. I don't know if you've asked her already or not, but what if she's still living with her parents? What if her roommate is hella religious and controlling and won't let your girl have a guy over? What if her 200lb rottweiler has a tendency to bite all non-Asians?

I'd suggest hitting her up Friday with:
1. Put her first. Ask her how the rest of her week went, or ask her how Salem was/is.
2. Come up with some bs about the party being cancelled or some other bs. I'd suggest something silly like "Unfortunately, the host cancelled the party and flew to Antarctica to become a penguin" to liven up the texting a little. Do come up with something better though, in case she asks you.
3. Ask her out. Something like "Down for dessert with me after sushi? We'll have a VIP hot chocolate party instead", perhaps.

I might put 1 and 2 together into one text since "How are you?" type of texts are easily ignored. She responded to your "How did your night..." text before, and you two did hit it off, so she might be responsive. I don't know. In the end, it's your call.

Be honest next time, and try to avoid game-y or gimmicky bs. If you want to appear busy, just send her texts that are all over the place time-wise. Sometimes send her texts right away, sometimes an hour or two later, and sometimes the next day. Or if she says something like her dinner ends at 9 or something again, just be like "Cool, I'm free at 10, so let's blah blah at 10:30"

 

[Raqimus]

Thanks and I appreciate the response, gonna try to get her out instead. Yes I don't lie to women normally but a friend suggested to try it this way so I said hey why not, I don't feel incredibly right about the way I did things because like you said it's a bunch of bs gimmicks. Thanks