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Any pointers on how to turn a girl down gracefully, without incurring negative repercussions? Especially social circle girls?
First of all, I've stopped approaching and pretty much turned off my sex/seduction drive for the last month or so because I've been insanely busy...just stupid amounts of busy. Secondly, social circle game is not my thing.
But somehow I've managed to run into a couple of situations where I'd be texting, studying, or hanging out with girl friends and things will get pretty sexual unintentionally (sometimes super implicitly where not even a compliment was given by me and sometimes explicitly where in one case the girls were rubbing my rubber chicken/"cock" on their pussies through their clothes saying overtly sexual shit). This sounds suuuper retarded now that I'm typing it out, but at the time I thought they just wanted to chill or chat, because I saw them as friends, and schoolwork and fatigue had further pushed the thought of sex out of my mind.
So we'd reach this peak of sexual tension, and now that I reflect, their eyes were screaming "fsc, this is where you make a fucking move!" But my head would intervene and be like "WTF!? She's my homie though...and I'm tired as fuck I doubt my dick will get hard" and things fizzle away and get VERY awkward.
I've been avoiding social circle game in fear of screwing shit up, but I've still managed to make things awkward by appearing like a pussy/beta or whatever is your favorite term to describe a clueless loser.
I need more help with the implicit cases, where it's more of a chess match type of feel where she's trying to "feel me out" whereas I'm just doing and spitting out the first junk in my mind (and sending mixed messages because I say and do shit "friendly" boys wouldn't). So this is a situation where if I say something like "look, you're awesome and all, but I see you as a friend", then she could come back with something like "Lol what? What are you talking about?" to protect her ego or whatever.
Also advice on how to recover would be cool too.
Thanks
First of all, I've stopped approaching and pretty much turned off my sex/seduction drive for the last month or so because I've been insanely busy...just stupid amounts of busy. Secondly, social circle game is not my thing.
But somehow I've managed to run into a couple of situations where I'd be texting, studying, or hanging out with girl friends and things will get pretty sexual unintentionally (sometimes super implicitly where not even a compliment was given by me and sometimes explicitly where in one case the girls were rubbing my rubber chicken/"cock" on their pussies through their clothes saying overtly sexual shit). This sounds suuuper retarded now that I'm typing it out, but at the time I thought they just wanted to chill or chat, because I saw them as friends, and schoolwork and fatigue had further pushed the thought of sex out of my mind.
So we'd reach this peak of sexual tension, and now that I reflect, their eyes were screaming "fsc, this is where you make a fucking move!" But my head would intervene and be like "WTF!? She's my homie though...and I'm tired as fuck I doubt my dick will get hard" and things fizzle away and get VERY awkward.
I've been avoiding social circle game in fear of screwing shit up, but I've still managed to make things awkward by appearing like a pussy/beta or whatever is your favorite term to describe a clueless loser.
I need more help with the implicit cases, where it's more of a chess match type of feel where she's trying to "feel me out" whereas I'm just doing and spitting out the first junk in my mind (and sending mixed messages because I say and do shit "friendly" boys wouldn't). So this is a situation where if I say something like "look, you're awesome and all, but I see you as a friend", then she could come back with something like "Lol what? What are you talking about?" to protect her ego or whatever.
Also advice on how to recover would be cool too.
Thanks
