Okay so there is this girl in my calculus 2 class and CS 150 class that I found very attractive. So in my CS 150 class I introduced myself to her at the end of class. The next time we had that class I asked her what her name was again (I guenuinly forgot), she told me again then said "but I didn't forget your name though, it's Vic. " then from there we talked as I walked her to her Jazz class. There was a little bit of deep diving; asking her about her major what she wants to do with it, things she likes to do (dance) etc. It was a cool conversation. Then I missed one of my Calc 2 classes because I had to go to New York. When I came back I was gonna ask her if I could see the notes we missed. So when I approached her after class she completely cut me off and initiated everything. She asked if I wanted to study with her and asked for my number. So far she is displaying a pretty solid interest in me. So we are texting and stuff and I mention that my birthday was that upcoming monday and that I'm turning 20 (when she asked me about any good bars to go to;I figured she was 21 or 22 at the most). So fastforward we are studying in the library laughing and goofing off; she's a pretty cool chic. I'm initiating slight physical contact. She them mentions that "I'm so young" I dont remember the context. Then I asked how old she was and she's 24. So we are texted later that week and our conversation gets a little deeper and a little more sexual we have this exchange:
Her: I like when a man smells good and just how good he makes me feel...Ok stop before my mind goes to a bad place lol
Me: Ha your minds always in the gutter but I see...how he makes you feel in what way though
Her: Haha yeaa I'm a pisces our minds tend to stay in the gutter...Like feeling as in respected, appreciated, wet, beautiful, comfortable, you know the usual lol
Me: lol mhm I got you, so what gets you wet
Her: Bahahahaha soo is that the only thing you saw???
Me: No but I feel everthing else is pretty self explanatory and is relatively easy to attain but when it comes to what turns you on everyone is unique
Her: Sheeeeeesh I think that response just put my mind right back into the gutter. you're already excelling without trying! That right there blows my mind and is so incredibly sexy!
So from here I try to get her to come over and she'd agree then not show up (but as we are having our more sexual conversations she always reassures me that she's "not that easy"), then she had car trouble (it was legitimate) which put a greater damper on logistics. And just overtime she has become more distant. When I text her we'll talk for a bit then she wont reply and I'll text her again 2 days later and the cycle repeats. So I'm not sure where the attraction went. I still talk to her in class but we dont sit next to each other because she has this much older lady friend there that she talks to. I feel that to some degree she's busy, because we had to work on a project together and she didn't even show up to that. She took the zero even. She also apologized to me;
Her: Friendddd I'm sorry lol. I didnt even do my lab. I lost track of time and had to go to work and lost my phone. But I found it early this morning under my bed.
Me: Lol its all good
Her: No I've been a bad friend now lol. On accident though. But I'll get my act together
Me: Alright you do that... I'll be looking forward for the new and improved you lol....I didnt even know we were "Friends" though I thought this was more so a "you're chasing me but I keep playing hard to get" kind of thing
Her: Stop Stooopo Im laughing so hard I cant breathe (winky face)
But even since then she hasn't contacted me or initiated conversation. If I texted her right now she'd respond but I dont want that, I want her to invest like she was before. I feel some attraction has been lost or maybe she is just very busy. I'm also speculating that the age difference might have her hesitant on account of her much older friend in our calc 2 class...thoughts?
Her: I like when a man smells good and just how good he makes me feel...Ok stop before my mind goes to a bad place lol
Me: Ha your minds always in the gutter but I see...how he makes you feel in what way though
Her: Haha yeaa I'm a pisces our minds tend to stay in the gutter...Like feeling as in respected, appreciated, wet, beautiful, comfortable, you know the usual lol
Me: lol mhm I got you, so what gets you wet
Her: Bahahahaha soo is that the only thing you saw???
Me: No but I feel everthing else is pretty self explanatory and is relatively easy to attain but when it comes to what turns you on everyone is unique
Her: Sheeeeeesh I think that response just put my mind right back into the gutter. you're already excelling without trying! That right there blows my mind and is so incredibly sexy!
So from here I try to get her to come over and she'd agree then not show up (but as we are having our more sexual conversations she always reassures me that she's "not that easy"), then she had car trouble (it was legitimate) which put a greater damper on logistics. And just overtime she has become more distant. When I text her we'll talk for a bit then she wont reply and I'll text her again 2 days later and the cycle repeats. So I'm not sure where the attraction went. I still talk to her in class but we dont sit next to each other because she has this much older lady friend there that she talks to. I feel that to some degree she's busy, because we had to work on a project together and she didn't even show up to that. She took the zero even. She also apologized to me;
Her: Friendddd I'm sorry lol. I didnt even do my lab. I lost track of time and had to go to work and lost my phone. But I found it early this morning under my bed.
Me: Lol its all good
Her: No I've been a bad friend now lol. On accident though. But I'll get my act together
Me: Alright you do that... I'll be looking forward for the new and improved you lol....I didnt even know we were "Friends" though I thought this was more so a "you're chasing me but I keep playing hard to get" kind of thing
Her: Stop Stooopo Im laughing so hard I cant breathe (winky face)
But even since then she hasn't contacted me or initiated conversation. If I texted her right now she'd respond but I dont want that, I want her to invest like she was before. I feel some attraction has been lost or maybe she is just very busy. I'm also speculating that the age difference might have her hesitant on account of her much older friend in our calc 2 class...thoughts?
