How to recover from bad night out?

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

Hey guys, went out to the bar I’ve been going to this summer, and needless to say, it was not a good night out. Definitely was tipsy/a bit drunk, won’t spare you with the details of my outfit or wingman, area was kind of dead, was only half packed.

Anyways, saw a few people from my hs(one of them I used to have a crush on), one other dude from my hs ended up pulling her to a park, where I saw them talking(maybe more happened I’m not speculating), saw one other girl that recognized me from before, couldn’t do much with her, went after a couple girls with boyfriends and a lesbian.

This is not really a review of my game, but how do the more experienced seducers recover after a bad night out like this, because it’s getting to me more than it should, for a bad night out, with people that I used to know that have a way worse self image of me than I currently am.

 

[Levo]

A combination of trusting the process, and reframing it as you didnt have a bad night out, there were just no good opportunities there.

I guarantee you that everyone who has a good ranking on this board has had more bad nights out than you have had nights out total. If they haven't then they're naturals and wouldn't be here.

One thing I will say about seeing people you went to HS with or whatever from your past. Its always a head fuck because they can knock you right back down if you let them. They won't respond to you and interact wit you like the new, better version of yourself that you've been working on, and that new people you meet see. They'll treat you like the old you, and that can mess with you.

 

[Definitely_not_a_gymrat]

A combination of trusting the process, and reframing it as you didnt have a bad night out, there were just no good opportunities there.

Woke up with some mental clarity, tbh I realize it’s not personal, and there were barely any chicks to talk to(all in groups with dudes that they knew or chicks from HS). If all the bad opportunities went out yesterday, hopefully they should filter out tonight, and only good opportunities should come.

I guarantee you that everyone who has a good ranking on this board has had more bad nights out than you have had nights out total. If they haven't then they're naturals and wouldn't be here.

Haha, I feel that, even I’ve had a few truly bad nights, yesterday goes up there tbh, hopefully tonight goes better(tbh it probably will).

One thing I will say about seeing people you went to HS with or whatever from your past. Its always a head fuck because they can knock you right back down if you let them. They won't respond to you and interact wit you like the new, better version of yourself that you've been working on, and that new people you meet see. They'll treat you like the old you, and that can mess with you.

Yeah, they were giving me compliments, but tbh most of the hs girls weren’t giving me the time of day, realizing it now, I wasn’t really happy to see the people from HS because even people I’ve met in 5 seconds at a club lounge have my back and are willing to help me out more than these guys, to put it into perspective.

Tonight should definitely be better, after sleeping on it I do feel much better.