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How to respond to shit test?

MichaelGScott

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How to respond to this message?

Me: Tell me if you see any suspicious russians - Lyle: 3:09 a.m. sunday morning (only the quick reply after getting number text to save momentum)

Me: So Jillian, whats your schedule like this week?: Monday

Her: Is this Gabe? I'm sorry I didn't realize you texted me! But this week I'm working everyday but next week I'm actually off Tuesday and Thursday!: Wednesday

She offered me her number while I was night gaming, she seemed intetested, we made out, blah blah. She obviously saw that I had Lyle on the first message, and is pretending to think I'm "Gabe" who ever tf that is. So how should I go about responding, suggestions?
 
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Richard

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Just going with what I'm seeing here, but, if your initial text is:

"So Jillian, what's your schedule like this week?"

then her response is completely warranted because she likely has no idea who you are. Your first text to a girl is never one automatically trying to set up another meeting, you should be bringing up something that gives her an indication of who you are, texting 3-4 times back and forth and then setting up a meeting.

In this case, it seems like she's sending that text message so that you remind her of who you are but in a way that gives her some deniability if you turn out to be a creep or get weird on her. Basically, she's trying to figure out who you are and if you turn out creepy then she can quickly dismiss you with "Oh, I thought you were Gabe."

Anyway, if there's anything that stood out between the two of you during your interaction with her then bring that up so she has an idea of who you are and then proceed from there. This isn't a shit test by the way.

-Richard
 
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