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What is the best way to retain a girl after 1st time sex - so she's not going out and fucking other guys after our experience - and we can meet up and have sex again?
How would you best do this for a normal girl?
Now the chick I am prospectively with is NOT a normal girl.
She's a model, who is an OnlyFans girl who I found was in Penthouse digital a couple years ago, and has a couple hardcore sex videos (with unknown guy) for a site called Crushed Velvet X.
I day gamed her this week. We met up for coffee, and she's agreed to meet-up for a longer late-day, early evening date in a couple of days or so...
So obviously I am going to try and close her.
BUT... Given her unique case. Now I have some weird thoughts floating around about the situation.
And our conversation during the coffee date...
1. Since we're meeting up in a couple days, and not over the weekend - is she out hooking up with a guy she's meeting this weekend?
How would I know? How would I ask?
2. Who's this unknown guy fucking her in the video? Boyfriend I suppose but maybe not?? He's gut a bit of a gut too, which is disconcerting because she is like super fitness Yoga Girl. In fact a lot of her OnlyFans videos of her doing Yoga nude. So what does that say about the quality of guys she chooses to have sex with? I'm a pretty fit, high value guy - or at least I consider myself to be. Is she choosing lower quality guys - and where would that put me - at a lower value??
Also, how would I find out the story behind this guy?
She doesn't know I looked her up, but I'd imagine she'd know I would!
3. She mentioned traveling to Vegas frequently, but she doesn't gamble. She says she has modeling gigs there. I saw one of her vids with she and group of girls in the back of a limo flashing the camera and some ghetto dudes out on the street. And idea popped into my head - what if she's not modeling in Vegas but is a "weekend warrior" Escort out there.
How would I know? Or ask?
4. Finally... If I were to close her on our upcoming date - I'd use a condom, but I typically hate condoms - cuz I can't feel anything, and I got this weird psychology that I actually haven't been with the girl if it isn't skin on skin.
How do you ask to not use a condom - and still keep yourself safe.
(I've never gotten anything)
BUT... If she's like - "no, keep the condom!" Would that be a red flag she's currently with other dudes.
What do you do then?
This is a unique situation for me.
Interested in the groups thoughts!
Perdo P
How would you best do this for a normal girl?
Now the chick I am prospectively with is NOT a normal girl.
She's a model, who is an OnlyFans girl who I found was in Penthouse digital a couple years ago, and has a couple hardcore sex videos (with unknown guy) for a site called Crushed Velvet X.
I day gamed her this week. We met up for coffee, and she's agreed to meet-up for a longer late-day, early evening date in a couple of days or so...
So obviously I am going to try and close her.
BUT... Given her unique case. Now I have some weird thoughts floating around about the situation.
And our conversation during the coffee date...
1. Since we're meeting up in a couple days, and not over the weekend - is she out hooking up with a guy she's meeting this weekend?
How would I know? How would I ask?
2. Who's this unknown guy fucking her in the video? Boyfriend I suppose but maybe not?? He's gut a bit of a gut too, which is disconcerting because she is like super fitness Yoga Girl. In fact a lot of her OnlyFans videos of her doing Yoga nude. So what does that say about the quality of guys she chooses to have sex with? I'm a pretty fit, high value guy - or at least I consider myself to be. Is she choosing lower quality guys - and where would that put me - at a lower value??
Also, how would I find out the story behind this guy?
She doesn't know I looked her up, but I'd imagine she'd know I would!
3. She mentioned traveling to Vegas frequently, but she doesn't gamble. She says she has modeling gigs there. I saw one of her vids with she and group of girls in the back of a limo flashing the camera and some ghetto dudes out on the street. And idea popped into my head - what if she's not modeling in Vegas but is a "weekend warrior" Escort out there.
How would I know? Or ask?
4. Finally... If I were to close her on our upcoming date - I'd use a condom, but I typically hate condoms - cuz I can't feel anything, and I got this weird psychology that I actually haven't been with the girl if it isn't skin on skin.
How do you ask to not use a condom - and still keep yourself safe.
(I've never gotten anything)
BUT... If she's like - "no, keep the condom!" Would that be a red flag she's currently with other dudes.
What do you do then?
This is a unique situation for me.
Interested in the groups thoughts!
Perdo P
