How to Retain Seduction Skills While in a Relationship

[Bboy100]

I've recently ran into a girl who under normal circumstances, might qualify as GF material. Right now, it's not really feasible because I'm going to be graduating and thereforing moving cities pretty soon. But if this wasn't the case, there's a very good chance I would like to turn her into a girlfriend.

Then I came to a realization...I'm afraid to settle into a relationship. No matter how amazing the girl. The reason for this is because for the last 1.5 years, I've been working my ass off to get some sort of base skill level in seduction. And it's finally paying off. I'm seeing a lot of progress in my game. I'm more outcome independent, girls enjoy my presance a lot more, I've literally more than tripled my lay count in just the last year (granted it was super low before then). I've completely destroyed AA, so now meeting women is actually fun for me. ...And so on.

I feel like if I get into a relationship with one girl (which is something I very much want), I'll lose all this progress overtime because I will not be talking to nearly as many girls. If nothing else, I'm almost certain that AA will return.

Are my assumptions correct? If so, do you guys know of any solutions to this issue?

 

[foggy]

You should head over to the advanced section of the forums and check out Chases thread called "Why Guys Drop Out of the Game Right Before They Break Through."

I think you might find it helpful.

 

[Drck]

I believe that once you gain some skills it is difficult to forget them... You will also be more mature and see things differently in 2-5 years from now, what you work hard for and what is important today may be just something casual or even useless down the road...

For example, when I interact with any girl I want to totally forget anything I know about seduction or PUA, because I see it today as unnatural, as trying too hard, as impressing her by pretending that I am not too interested in her, as pretending to be someone else that I am not and so on... I'm even trying to unlearn lots of things such as expressing dominance or appearing too sexy, appearing that I can have every girl that I want because all I do is bang hot chicks every day... even that brings unnecessary Obstacles because you are simply expected to live up to your appearance, which many times creates unnecessary expectations, from girls you are not even interested in... Once you mature as a man you'll realize that it's all bs...

There are always good points to remember though, I always used to write some quick summaries down, sort of bulletpoints... You just review it in 5 minutes in the future, and that's all you need. Some points are great refresher, they are gold and solid; others, well, don't be surprised to find yourself yawning when you read them in the future, or if you call them ridiculous... Don't forget to put a password on it, so she can't read it, LOL.